Im dating this awesome girl. At first we were good 2gether but now she's not messaging me back and doesn't call me. Everythin is fine when we talk. Every1 says we'll be ok but idk. What shud I do?
2007-06-19 16:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, u should just ask her, y aren't u messaging me back or answering my calls...it could be because her mom took away her phone or something! DON'T BRING UR SELF DOWN UNTIL U KNOW THE REAL SITUATION!
2007-06-19 16:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be several reaosns:
- Sometimes a person needs to take a little time off from the relationships. The feeling of love takes up some emotional energy from a person and he/she needs to recharge it by taking a little break, just like you take a vacation to recharge your body and mind.
- She has some personal problems, like family problems, didn't get into the right school, didn't get the job that she wanted, family problems.
- She is INTP personality type and she takes a break to re-evaluate the relationships. After the break she will either break up with you or fall in love with you to craziness [1]
2007-06-19 16:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she dosnt meesage back dosent mean you shuld breakup!! Maybe she dosent have the time right now. But wait a bit and if she continues not to reply talk to her abou tit let her know that it would be nice to her from her everynow and then but cant expect her to message all the time. And if it dosent sounds like thier is a problem when you talk then more than likely thier isn't.
2007-06-19 16:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it directly & ask her what's going on. make sure everything is okay & show her that you care about her a lot. just be there for her. don't call things off just yet cause you don't know what's going on. if you know you can help her & you guys will get through w.e it is then support her & things should be just fine. best of luck & follow your heart (=
2007-06-19 16:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might just be the game, she could be testing you to see if you will chase her instaid of the other way around. This is natural dont panic
2007-06-19 16:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is being busy, that is why she doesn't spend too much time messaging you or call you?
2007-06-19 16:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Azucar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not call you alot because she might think she'll get on yo nerves. give it a little while. but dont neccessarily think she's doin or up to something because she dont know what could be goin on with her
2007-06-19 16:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you'd like to hear from her more often, and find out why she does'nt be in touch with you much these days, she could be busy or she could just be ignoring you.
best to confront her and tell her whats on your mind.. and take it from there!! good luck,
2007-06-19 16:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give he time, maybe she has family or personal problems. If she is interested she will call you again, if she doesnt call you you will have to move on.
2007-06-19 16:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Gila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is just busy or something, ask her? or maybe she has lost interest and just does not know how to tell u.
2007-06-19 16:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋