After two years of me treating her perfect she decides that she does not wan to be with me anymore why would she do that. I understand that ppl fall out of love but i should have been the one to do that b/c of the way that she treated me. i gave her everything she wanted she always came first and if she didnt i heard about it, ask my friends. so why would she do that? Thanks for the help
2007-06-19 14:54:08 · 7 answers · asked by Trey B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, straight up? People change. I was in my last (and only serious relationship EVER) for 10 years, until I got the balls to end it. You're not giving yourself enough credit. Don't blame yourself, it wasn't about you . . . she was thinking about herself. Be thankful that you didn't waste anymore of your life on a worthless relationship . . . jeez, I sound like a woman scorned. Anyway, keep your head up, there are plenty of other women out there that will respect you and cherish the ground you walk on . . . get out there and find one!!!
2007-06-19 14:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you sound like a pretty young guy and by that I'm guessing this was both of your first real relationship. Probably carried over from high school to outside of high school. My guess, is that being both of your first real relationship caused both of you to really think about other people. Sounds like she made the move first by dumping you. I'm sure there was somebody out there that she was interested in. After 2 years, things change. Things aren't as exciting as they used to be. She probably missed that which eventually led to the break up. I know it sounds great and everything that you gave her everything that she wanted but think about it... she got used to it. Nothing was new. You have to add excitement to a relationship to keep it going. Not the same old stuff everyday, that wasn't what it was like when you first got together. As the person said above me, chalk this one down as a learning experience and move on. There are many fish in the sea, you just got to go out there and find them. Hopefully this helps you out!
2007-06-19 22:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by ChrisWalt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what is hurt-your heart or your pride and ego.I ask this question because in your description you write and I quote:"I should have been the one to do that b/c of the way that she treated me". Maybe,all you want is revenge.Nonetheless, you have bad people in the world who do bad things to innocent and good ones.It hurts and sometimes,it hurts a lot.Chalk this one up to a learning experience and move on with your life.Who knows! She might have just done you a great favor.
2007-06-19 15:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't know how bad she treated you and just got tired of the relationship. Or just wanted to use you and then move on. Theres no tellin why she did it. Or maybe she just fell out of love like you said. You could try asking her why..? Just an idea. Sorry for your break up :(
2007-06-19 15:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jenae K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you could have been too nice to her, that's why she started taking you for granted. She probably assumes that you will be there for her even though the 2 of you aren't together anyway because of how much you love her. Learn to let her go. She will come to realise that you are the best. You aren't missing out on anything but getting someone who doesn't love you out of your life.
2007-06-19 15:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as girls say they want to be treated like a princess, they still need you to be a jerk every now and again. I know that sounds weird, but bad boy appeal is present in every girl. Try ignoring her, it might help.
2007-06-19 14:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by **Sparkles** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this, but there may be another guy in this scene. If there isn't, then what is perfect to you may not be perfect to her.
2007-06-19 14:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by yz90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋