why would a guy who makes suggestive comments to you, touches you, has sex with you, would suddenly want to behave themselves? but..once in a while would make a sexual comment, say they want to look and might want to touch, but when it comes to that point...they say they can't because they're trying to behave themselves? i'm really confused. any suggestions?
2007-06-19 14:43:57 · 9 answers · asked by Verge 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best Case Scenario
He is probably waiting to see how you will react. You know just teasing you a bit. he is just trying to see if you work o n your own initiative, and how far he is allowed to go with you.
Worst Case Scenario
He is probably involved with someone else and is feeling a bit guilty or he is with you for the wrong reasons and does not want to hurt you. He might be afraid that you will get too attached to him.
2007-06-19 14:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to turn his life around and stop having sex or talking dirty. I suggest respecting his wishes. If he is just playing you, he'll turn around and come right back, if he wants to be a good boy, help him along by not making suggestive comments or coming onto him. Encourage him and let him know you have his back no matter what. Whether you love someone is not about getting sex or his money, car, ect it's wanting whatever makes them happiest even if you have to change your views a little. (unless it totally undermines your standards then, dump him.) Hope I could help. :)
2007-06-19 14:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmmmm..........is he healthy? Is he seeing someone else? Do you think he has a problem with getting an erection? If it's not any of the above I would come right out and ask him what the heck is wrong and why???? doesn't he want you anymore and telll him to be honest!!!!
2007-06-19 14:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by chugga_769 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think there might be somebody else because that's the worst. Might be embarrassed because somebody or a lot of people might know that you have relations with him and to respect you in front of all those people from turning you into gossip
2007-06-19 14:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by artmastercf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is trying to change. i use to jokingly call my gf a fool in her native language. she knew i was only joking and i meant it only in a joking way (she is leaps and bounds more intelligent than me). I now never say it because i realized even though it was a joke it was disrespectful. maybe he did those things but now he is trying to change. I still slip up on things that i used to do and say to my gf but i no longer what to say. look into it.
2007-06-19 14:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by not_moes_cousin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your daddy had a private talk with him and threatened to break his foot off in his *** if he didn't knock off that behavior. That's been known to work wonders.
2007-06-19 14:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he feels guilty, if you liked it tell him so, if you didn't, let him try to whip himself into shape.
2007-06-19 14:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by valkyrie hero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has another girl, and is feeling guilty.
2007-06-19 14:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just throw him down and giv it all u got!
2007-06-19 14:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by ;-) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋