Im 12 yrs old and my dad was buggin me to clean my room. well i didnt do it so he scolded me. I was gettin really annoyed so I kinda stuck my butt out at him, pointed at it & said "Kiss my arze, arzshole." Then he walked over and swatted my butt 3 times. Then he said that i couldnt leave the house at all tomorrow! THiS SO MEAN & HARSH!!!! How do I make him change his mind????? Im REALLY pissed off. what a JERK!!.
2007-06-19 13:24:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
um ok, you know what? if Im pissed off Im gonna SAY SOMETHING. im not some damn puppet.
2007-06-19 13:32:06 · update #1
sorry, but you deserved to be punished.....and YOU are the jerk. You should have cleaned your room. My kids are younger than you are and they clean their room...it's their mess and their space, but it's MY HOUSE because I PAY THE MORTGAGE. When you are a father, a home owner, pay the bills, feed, clothes and entertain the family, then you will appreciate what being a parent means. Right now you sound like a spoiled brat who needed his butt smacked a long time ago.
2007-06-19 13:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be glad that i'm not your father. But that is besides the point. Be glad that, thats all he did to you and make the best of it tomorrow. BTW if he reads this post dont be surprised if he ads a few days to your stay in the house. Who actually taught you to talk to your father like that anyway? Grow up a little and maybe you wouldnt think this too harsh at all.
2007-06-19 20:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your dam lucky thats all he did. Helloo!!!! Clean the pigsty you call a room thats in the house HE pays for and be a little more respectful for things he provides. You may just find that if you do the FEW things you are asked to, and be sweet about it, next time you ask for something he would normally say no to, you may be surprised. You sound spoiled and have a really poor attitude, like the world owes you something. Nothing is free, get used to it.
2007-06-19 20:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't a harsh punishment, it was very rude to disrespect your father like that. Put yourself in his shoes, would you want your child talking to you like that? You know what you mean by "arze," it's the same as swearing at him.
2007-06-19 20:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that your dad is asking for respect. He's asking that you respect the room that he provided for you by cleaning it, and learning responsibility, and he's asking that you respect yourself and learn how to take care of yourself (cleaning up after yourself). You were very disrespectful by doing that to your father. Frankly, you got off very easy. If I ever disrespected my father I'd have gotten a lot worse than that. I hope that you soon learn how to appreciate what you've been given and how to show that appreciation and respect to your father!
2007-06-19 20:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honor they mother and father...you are the jerk-not your dad...he could've done worse punishment...he was going easy on you...
Even if you do not agree with your parents, you should not disrespect them...
Tell your dad you're very sorry, you'll take your punishment...but you still love him...that will do a lot of good...
2007-06-19 20:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lifeinterrupted 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta suck up for a little and let him annoy you but dont let him know it annoys you. When it gets too much to handle instead of saying stuff just say you need a min and go some where you can be alone and calm down
2007-06-19 20:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by lilhoku711 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and get over it BABY!!! I think it's harsh that a 12 year old can't clean a bedroom, that is really sad and pathetic. You are the JERK!!!!!!!!
2007-06-19 20:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Etheria ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My father would have broken his leather belt showing me what he could do to my butt if I had said that.
I wouldn't have been able to leave the house the next day for medical reasons!
Consider yourself lucky, or spoiled.
2007-06-19 20:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you got off light.
Unless you pay rent towards the house you live in, you are a guest- surviving off of human instinct and hospitality. Tread lightly and dont rock the boat- lest you be kicked from it.
Parents house- parents rules.
2007-06-19 20:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Randathamane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋