How do i make my boyfriend more comfortable with me and do normal bf/gf things like kissing and cuddling.?

Question

My bf and i are in a good relationship except for one thing,he is always shy,never talks to me,never holds my hand,barely hugs me,and never kisses me without me asking for it or going up to him and doing it myself.I really wish he was comfortable with me and not shy and could do all those things with me.He is moving soon and all i want is a happy and nice relationship before his move.What do i do?I tried talking to him and his only excuse is "I don't know",sometimes i think he is with me for the hook up not the lOVE.pLEASE HELP!!!!WHAT DO I DO?

Answer 1

You've told him what you want (your needs) and his actions or lack thereof is showing you that he can't or won't.... he's not going to change and meet your needs.

You can try reading (together) Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Answer 2

This can be pretty complex, being a play of his sense of self, with his sense of pride (social self). Or you could be right on the money with him just stringing you along. Which could actual be caused by his lack of maturity not just some vindiction so thats sometimes part of the course. If its other then your going to have to understand what your dealing with, just not say anything and do it. Get us to doing that, the fact is the best way to tell someone how to do something is just to do it, and give him sometime to see how easy and how happy you are for doing it. If he is geniune and you throw in some good hearted conversation about it, he should slowly warm up to you. Now if you just get a constant freeze from the guy, well lets just say he doesn't want to learn anything new with you....

Answer 3

Thats so candy of him coz hes affectionate with you no longer purely right while youre wakeful , yet he however needs you and thinks youre so very gorgeus and hes candy shinning angel even while he thinks youre no longer finding at him and are asleep ! He cant in all threat be taking into consideration cheating on you while hes so in love with you ! Thats so lovable and lovable of him , and its coz hes particularly into you , youre hes entire worldwide and universe ! He would desire to worship the very floor you walk on !