do guys think its trashy if...
1. a girl asks them out insted of the other way around?
2. a girl wears a mini skirt and skimpy shirt on a first date?
3. wears unnatural make up? (like bright blue eye shadow and red lipstick)
4. a girl calls them first?
do yall like that stuff or is it a turn off?
2007-06-19 13:02:16 · 16 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Number 1 and number 4 are what guys love but it hardly ever happens. If you did that to a guy he would really appreciate it. Especially if that guy is a kinda not willing to make the first move.... like a shyer kinda guy
2007-06-19 13:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself....
I don't mind if a girl calls me, or asks me out...it kinda relieves the pressure on me and I don't have to worry about rejection!
The unnatural make-up and the skimpy outfit are a bit much--especially for a first date, though. Don't advertise if it's not for sale! If I pick up a lady and she's dressed and made up for sex...then I'm going to expect that that's where she wants the night to end up.
Don't be afraid to tell a guy how you feel--and don't be afraid to go after what you want...but don't give out the wrong signals!
2007-06-19 13:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by MACHNGUN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can do without item three (the unnatural makeup) but even then I wouldn't be so judgmental as to call it "trashy", just counter to my tastes. Three's kind of a turn off but there are degrees to that assessment. The rest of it doesn't really bother me a bit.
2007-06-19 13:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dislike 2 and 3, but 1 and 4 I wouldn't mind.
2007-06-19 13:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by nothingknower29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy, some would like it and some wouldnt. 1 and 4 yer no prob, it would prolly be better cos guys are slow lol. but 2 and 3 not so much.
2007-06-19 14:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cana sk a guy out no probs
i would think it might be a little trashy on the first date to wear that ya I prefer not conservitive but not girls that look slutty 24/7
i prefer no make up but ya if your going to go make up dnt use un natural ones...go for stuf thay looks real no its not a turn off if she calls first no biggie
2007-06-19 13:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by pikemasta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl asking a guy out or calling a guy is fine. buy wearing slutty clothes on a first date and wearing to much make up would be to wierd and scare me away
2007-06-19 13:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 and 4 are okay. 2 and 3 are turn offs...for me. I guess some guys must probably like it, since girls do it.
2007-06-19 13:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by chrisatmudd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I REALLY like girls who ask me out. Not trashy at all. Don't like unnatural makeup. In fact, I hate it.
2007-06-19 13:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love when a girl ask me out, and call me
they are true turn-ons,,,
i love to feel wanted, and they are ways to make a man feel wnated
clothes????it depends on what message the girl trying to send
if she wants to get laid after the first date, please wear a mini-skirt....if not go conservative in your clothing....same thing with make-up, do you really want to look like a slut???think about it....
2007-06-19 13:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by sexprob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋