What it is the best thing to say if your woman asks you, "do you like what I am wearing"?

Question

If i say yes- she would not believe me!
if i say no- she would give me the sort of look that kills!

All answers appreciated, both from women and men.
Thanks

Answer 1

say no with a smile and fix something about her dress and say "thats better"

Answer 2

You have to be honest, if you are totally in love with her and her appearance, every inch of her skin, curves, and figure any clothes that touches her body should be idolized. You should tell her its lovely, stunning, gorgeouse,not the dress or clothes, but her IN the clothes she's wearing. If she denys you maybe she is insecure and does not believe what you are saying. Do you truly mean it, does it come from the heart or do you simply want to satisy her. If it comes from the heart assure her that the feelings you have for her and her stunning apperance are true. Maybe she is insecure about herself and she just needs a man to really support her through her condition and tell her and honestly say she is beautiful. After all if you truly mean it that is all she wants to hear and she will be eternally grateful for your die giving sincerity. If you want to just satisfy her just by saying what pleases her it isnt goign to work. Those emothions, arent pure, they are not true. The only thing that nobody can touch or lay a finger on is the love for your woman, the respect, you have towards her, the emotional support you give her, and the honesty that displays your true emotions when you tell her, "anything can look good on you, becasue you to me are everything, and anything you wear makes it divine, nobody else is beautiful, you are the only one" sounds corny? If it sounds corny to you you probably are just saying it to satisy her but if that really says your feelings try expalining that to her and fugure out her insecurities and what they are and do everything you can to help. Just be dedicated to the girl of your dreams.

Answer 3

"You look beautiful." is usually safe. Accompanied by a hug and kiss.

Also, listen to the tone of voice. If she sounds really uncertain, or if she asks you about a certain piece of clothing ("I'm really not sure about this sweater with these pants.") she might be one of those rare women looking for an honest opinion. But don't say anything bad without having a constructive suggestion ("I really like that brown sweater you wear. You look great in that.")

If she sounds happy or seductive, just tell her how beautiful she looks. That means she went to a lot of trouble to look nice, and feels good about the outcome. She wants you to appreciate the time and effort it took to look nice for you.

Answer 4

The trick is, not to answer with a yes or a no..

If you like what she is wearing, tell her how beautiful she looks.
And (always the tricky one) if you don't like her outfit, suggest that she may be a little over (or under dressed) for the occasion.
Or tell her that someone else has and outfit just the same...she will get changed very quickly.

Answer 5

I get the feeling you get asked this question a lot. Sounds like you may have an insecure lady on your hands or one that thinks she's all that! Next time she asks you that, take her over to the mirror, put your arms behind her and have her stare at herself. Tell her that she looks beautiful in her dress, but it's whats on the inside that you find the most beautiful. "

Answer 6

just say ur sexy and that doesn't do u justice if u flatter her then she should just move on to wearing something else b/cos u've said she's sexy and that to me is a great compliment.
she may have a self esteem problem hence why she doesn't believe u when u tell her yes she looks great which is why u need to flatter her usually its the man that make a woman feel sexy in a relationship.

Answer 7

The best answer to this question is - deversionary tattics. Say something nice like is that new? Did you lose/gain weight? which ever she is bitching about not doing. Never answer the question directly - you are right it is a trap.
Never answer in this manner either
Do these jeans make my *** look big? DO NOT answer with - no honey it is not the jeans.

Answer 8

Give her an answer that isn't only one word.

Tell her what it looks like to you.
She'll appreciate your honesty.

But if you say "yes" or "no", she'll be able to tell what you really think. Women are incredibly keen to body language and facial expressions. Even tone of voice, too.

Answer 9

if she looks stupid dnt let her go out like that that would make u a very cruel person but with women even if she doesnt believe u it will stick in her head n she will remember it , it is good that u can give ur woman a confidence boost it keeps the relationship alight


hope it helps

Answer 10

As a 30 yr old woman this is my advice and opinion. I hate it when girls put their men in that position cuz really, I don't think you guys give two craps about what we wear. If she asks tho, just tell her what you think. If she gets mad, just tell her to stop asking you if she doesn't want to hear your answer. I never ask my guy what he thinks, it's ridiculous cuz to him, I look good in whatever, so why ask a question that can only lead to an arguement. Girls, if you're reading this, STOP ASKING YOUR MEN DUMB QUESTIONS!!! They don't know how to answer you right and they'll never say outloud what you have planned on them saying in your head. It's like asking them what they're thinking, chances are, it's not you, it's food, sports or whatever!!! Just deal with it and love them for what they offer.

Answer 11

Always say no. Now you have their undivided attention because they want to know why. This puts you in a powewr position. When you get that look just act real serious and say that you are God today and you like her better the way you made her, naked. After she gets done laughing at your awesome humor and your powerful self confidence you can be honest and she won't be offended if you really did not like it. I shopped (she dragged me along) for many years with my ex-wife and she appreciated me telling her the truth once in a while ;-)