2007-06-19 09:18:53 · 11 answers · asked by Me Encanta Espanol 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a boy as a friend, but I think he might have thought I wanted more because I called him on the phone once and went to his house a lot and had him over. Is it ok to have a guy over to your house that you don't like romanticly?
2007-06-19 09:21:07 · update #1
I don't go to the church where I met the boy at, I was just giving an example of when that happend to me.
2007-06-20 02:01:34 · update #2
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2007-06-27 07:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mariska 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got Asperger's too, and what I ended up doing was just trying not to worry about it. I just focused on whether or not I was interested in them, and if I was, then I'd make the first move or be the initiator. The plus side is that if you're a girl and you make the first move, guys will pretty much never turn you down.
2007-06-26 04:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by mnemosyne0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I believe you should make it very clear from the very beginning. Otherwise, it might create some misunderstanding in the future.
Does your friend know that you are an aspie? If yes, then it would be easy for him to appreciate your frankness. Yes, it's better to be candid about it, rather than looking for social clues.
Even NTs have problems at times about the topic you have mentioned.
Good luck :-)
2007-06-20 00:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have not known I have Asperger's for very long so I am still learning about it I am studying an on-line book called
A survival guide for people on the autistic spectrum
http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/A_survival_guide_for_people_on_the_autistic_spectrum
There is a chapter on dating you may find helpful
http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/A_survival_guide_for_people_on_the_autistic_spectrum#Sexual_relationships
Sorry I can't give more direct advice but my dating history has been less than exemplary
2007-06-23 06:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Resting 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I agree with some of the other peoples' answers, that it's the best policy to be upfront with the boy about having Aspergers. Whenever I was in relationships where I was upfront about my condition, any guesswork about what she meant (or felt) went away. Good luck!!
2007-06-21 17:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Focus and tell him you friends, that is a great experience as well. Its got lots to exchange and deal.
2007-06-27 14:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jesús Ernesto Miguel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may just have to come right out and ask him if you have problems figuring out the "i like you body cues other people would notice more easily
2007-06-27 13:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by lsp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ! as long as he knows it's ONLY as friends.
2007-06-27 16:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea as long as he knows that. make it very clear so he wont feel like a dummy
2007-06-19 16:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, maybe you will get junk and give in one day
2007-06-19 16:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by micky mouse1214 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋