well me and my boyfriend have been going out 9 months from today.but we have been more mad at each other!ive notice he is texting a girl from school all the time!i cal him becuz he tells me 2 but everytime i do he says he will cal me back cuz he is txting her and he doesnt like a phone conversation while txt.it ends up he never does and now that were in vacation i never see him or hardly talk to him what is he doing?guys please help!tel me the truth am i being a bad girlfriend or selfish? help please ASAP!!cuz he is leaving town 4 a month and i dont know if i should just finish he says he loves me when we get 2 talk. wat do i do?
2007-06-19 07:46:14 · 14 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, I gotta be honest with you, I can speak from experience. Chances are, he's going behind your back, I'm not going to lie. The fact that he tells you he's texting her is just so it appears that he is just friends, and it helps his emotional stability a little to have told you he's at least talking to her. The best bet you've got is to corner him on the subject and basically make him choose. There are way to many other guys out there for you for you to get hung up on one guy, especially at your age.
2007-06-19 07:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Radley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope you are not staying with the guy just because he says he loves you. Any guy can tell you that he loves you. What are you honestly getting out of this relationship? You are not being selfish at all because you are getting nothing. The guy just seems like a jerk. As a guy I can tell you that when your girlfriend calls you need to be there for her, no matter what. You need to decide if he is worth staying with. I'm pretty sure you know the answer to that, it's just hard admitting it.
2007-06-19 07:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Big Paesano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he doesn't want to spend time with you. It's not very possible to have a relationship with someone who would rather spend his time texting another girl than calling you. Maybe you should get together with him and just talk. Tell him your worries. Maybe he'll come to his senses and relize how much he's been texting that girl. Or maybe he's just not the right guy for you. I don't think you're doing anything wrong at all. I think you two just need to talk it out and see what happens from there.
2007-06-19 07:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by čŖåŻęĤ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you that much you should tell him. If he really cares for you, he'll put down the phone and talk to you. He might just be lonely and want another women's view on things. Make sure you set him down and let him know what's up and how it makes you feel. May sound corny but it works. Hope this helps!!
2007-06-19 07:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he said he loves you but do you feel the same if yes then tell him that you do love him and you would like it if he made time for the two of you only he can send text that girl but not during your time.If you think he is cheating then break up with him before he does.Good luck
2007-06-19 08:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anthie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your not being a bad girlfriend, your trying to keep the relation together, what you need to do is sit down and ask him if he still loves you. or you can take a different route and do something to get him back in love with you. something so big that he will tottaly forget the other girl.
2007-06-19 07:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by caleb s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 23:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just using you. Dump the bum and go find someone nice for yourself. Theres plenty of good guys out there who will talk to you on the phone, call you back, and txt you. Drop him like a hot potato.
2007-06-19 07:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he need to text that gurl in the first place? and if he is texting her why is she coming first when that place is reserved for the first girl in his life which is you? i dont think you are being selfish but honestly if you tell him all this and he says your trippin or whateva and it continues then leave him alone because another guy will treat you better.
2007-06-19 07:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss confused, You are to young to be miserable over a player. Break up and chill. then after awhile find a shy truehearted guy to hang with !
2007-06-19 07:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋