I have read in this book http://kkf2006.alexander2.hop.clickbank.net that women deep down inside want sex just as much as men. But, because of social programming, women will be more selective in who they have sex with. In other words, they are scared of being labeled "slutt" or "too easy". The book says that women will many times deny sex to a man because of the bad "consequences" that might result from this action. What's your opinion?
2007-06-19 07:38:43 · 17 answers · asked by Myssteriouss01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not only social programming, it is an instinct that women are born with. It's also not only the image of being "slutty" or "too easy" that is our consideration. We crave emotional fidelity. We want to have one man that is faithful to us alone. Yes, the consequences can be serious for being "too easy". STD's unplanned children, broken hearts. That is why many women, myself included, are very choosy about who they date, and are willing to wait until marriage to have sex.
2007-06-19 07:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant say I want it as much as my husband but I am never ashamed to admit it when I want it. Dosnet mean I go around having sex with everything in sight. Im still faithful. I love sex. If I were single and wanted sex, Id go and get it. I dont find that to be easy, its about taking care of needs. I dont look down on "slutts" as long as they use protection and arent cheating or sleeping with a married person.
About the sociol programming, your right but it goes further than not sleeping around, lots of people(well, mostly women) are afraid to be "slutts" even for their own spouses, ridiculous!
2007-06-19 07:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by TrophyWife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is true, we are programed to think that if we have sex all the time with different partners we are sluts or sex addicts, but women think differently than men. Some women equate sex to love and form a bound and when the man doesn't feel the same way they get their hearts broken. There are others like myself who have learned that love don't always pay off, but have a basic need and in order to fulfill that need you must find someone anyone to fulfill it. Basically a F&%( is a F&%(...
2007-06-19 08:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is true. I am 24 and have only slept with 2 guys.I didn't sleep with guys becasue i was scared of getting pregnant at a young age, but this of course is what happend to me.I also didn't want to get any diseases.i have been married for 6 years now. I have it now whenever i want, so don't beleive everything you read in a book. but don't ever presssure a girl to have sex jsut because you as a man cannot control your hornyness.
2007-06-19 07:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by dietzc2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
women dont want sex as much as men do because i know men want it all the time and they think about it all the time.
women can control themselves much better but yes - they will say no a lotttt of times just because other people will see them as easy and not a marriage material.
2007-06-19 16:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. They need it as much as us. The only difference is that men are expressive about it and they aren't. It's a silent storm.
Biologically speaking, higher levels of testosterone is one of the reasons why men are agressive about(in) sex. That makes us look more interested in sex. But, that fact is they want it...They really do.
2007-06-19 07:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by siddhu_doo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WE LOVE SEX... SEX IT AMAZING but most of of like to know there is some thing behind it some kinda of feeling or emotion not just an easy root type of thing men just like gettin their di*k wet well not all but some of the ones ive met but all of us chicks love sex were just not always open about it
2007-06-19 07:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i for sure think women want sex just as much... its a primal instinct.. i think though they are labeled when they do go for their instincts... they are called sluts tramps, etc... so yeha
i think though women are different from men in that they dont just jump into bed with the first guy they meet, where a man is able to sleep with a girl on the first date... so yeah!
2007-06-19 07:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by cinnimon2693 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is right on the money because of the double standard. notice how all those words slut and whore or whatever else when used toward a man have to be used differently, man whore, etc you get the idea.
2007-06-19 07:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by kaybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it could be ever depends on who we r talkin bout
girls r selective because they want someone who will wake up and still be there to spend there life wid a handsone fello
someone isn't a man hoer
2007-06-19 07:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋