i don't want him to be like all 20 questions on me.............he started datign at like 12 so he can't say i'm to young............i'm also afriad my mom will be like OOOOooooooo tell me about him.........
anyways to get a quick yes then get away b4 the questions come flying at me
2007-06-19 07:10:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't mean i wanna date my dad
EWWWW
I wanna ask him if i can go out with this 16 yr old guy...........in my englsih class..............
2007-06-19 07:14:49 · update #1
my dad always talks about my first date how he'll be all 20 questions on them with a shotgun in his hand..........and he will want me back early then he'll talk to my date afterwards and i don't want this embarassment
plus i don't want him to mention it's my first date because the guy i like has had many gf's and it'll be REALLLLLY embarassing and awkward if my date hears he's my first bf
2007-06-19 07:17:26 · update #2
If you are too immature to deal with questions from your parents, what makes you think you can handle a romantic relationship.
From your question alone, I can tell you that you shouldn't be dating yet.
2007-06-19 07:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by hellotman16 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them together so you only have to answer the 20 questions once. That's what parents do. Have him come by and then they can question him instead and if he's nice he'll get through it unscaved. It's a part of life, don't try to get around your parents. Just go through it and explain what you can and try to make it as non confrontational as possible. You're just going out as friends but it's a boy. They will want to know where you are going, what you'll be doing and when you are coming home. Also, they'll want to make sure he's trustworthy, otherwise they should be okay. good luck.
2007-06-19 14:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they must no how u feel because they were the same once. mayb u shood just casually say to your dad "oh i mite meet up wid dis boi ..." and tell him a lil bit bout him. if you act grown up den deyre treat you as a grown up and theyr be really proud of u. im sure this boi is reli nice so u shood just slip it into a general convo and den they mite not make such a big deal bout it.
but once uv told one of them den u willnt hav to worry. i always find it easier to tell my dad about bois as hes less judging and accepts me more. my mum just starts asking all the most embarasing qs and tells me bout all that keepin safe stuff...lk she hasnt told me b4.
hope it all goes k (and hope u and the cutey work out 2)
2007-06-19 14:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for the questions because you will never get out of there without answering them. They are not going to let their daughter go out on her first date with a boy they know absolutely nothing about.
2007-06-19 14:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be open at least to your Mom.Both or either of them will agree or disagree.Be determined to convince them that you are not doing anything wrong which they may like to tell you or thrust upon you.Tell them that you may do so even without informing them.It is truth what you feel and you r expressing truth because you expect them to understand.
2007-06-19 14:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by mdash2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it. Your parents care that is why they ask questions. Why would you not want to tell them about the person you want to date. My dad used to meet all my dates ahead of time.
2007-06-19 14:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by slw_402000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if they are good parents they are going to ask a million questions. just have the boy come in and meet them then go out on your date. it may be old fashion i guess but it will make your parents feel better and then you can leave and enjoy your date. ask yourself this would you let a daughter of yours go out with a stranger?
2007-06-19 14:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you want to talk to your parents about it? The easiest way to get them to say yes is to be upfront with them. They will respect your honesty and maturity and see that you're ready to go on dates.
2007-06-19 14:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by odg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 16. Just go on the date then tell them after.
2007-06-19 14:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
its ok, my first bf with my rents wasn't so bad. they accept it. just tell them what they want to hear, good student, no drugs, blah blah blah. unless of course, thats not true...
you'll live. what you really have to worry about is them meeting the guy. try some ground rules.
2007-06-19 14:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋