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2007-06-19 07:03:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be happy that you discovered you were not life partners before you went and got married. Your next love will make this one a dim memory. In the meantime go ahead and cry if you want, but don't forget to live some, too.
2007-06-19 07:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two factors can help to get over an ex. Time + another person in your life. The only things that help are to keep yourself real busy with friends, and work, and anythings else that may bring you joy. Don't do anything that reminds you of your ex, and don't think back to the past. Soon you will find that you don't think of your ex as much, and you will be ready to meet the next person. The point is to move on, go out, and do things, and meet new people as friends, and just find what makes you happy in life. Find your own inner happiness!
good luck.
2007-06-19 14:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by madaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, before you get back into the dating scene, make sure you give yourself plenty of time to heal. If you don't, you may look to 'replace' this lost love...it's not good to go backwards. You might look to just have a warm body again...that's the wrong reason to date someone.
Three years is a long time to spend with one person and everyone takes breakups differently.
My advice is to try something new. In order to get your mind off of the breakup, try to learn a new skill like pottery or painting, dancing, yoga or pilates. You will most likely also meet some new people (not particularly bf material, but new people nonetheless).
Rid your house of reminders of him if they are too painful. That always helps.
Good luck!
2007-06-19 14:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone who has had a failed relationship, no matter the cause, has to go through a period of re-adjustment. Your life has changed; you need to take whatever time you need to grieve the loss of the relationship. Gradually you will see (and accept) the reasons the relationship did not last. Then you will be ready to move forward. Be gentle with yourself. Take the emotions as they come and learn from what went wrong so that it won't become a pattern in your life. God bless.
2007-06-19 14:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself time,go out with friends, keeping yourself busy always helps.time heals all wounds (old but true) it's tempting to start dating right away,but the next person in your life,deserves your head and heart to be clear and sure your ready to move on.you don't have to throw things away ,but i'd put away his photos,things he gave you.put them far away in the attic or basement.they have there place in the past.if he gave you nightgowns or undies throw those away.
2007-06-19 14:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by need2know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent movies, read, write or paint. Cry a lot and go out running or to the gym.
good luck.
2007-06-19 14:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by poetrygal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i mean dont get me wrong its pretty diff. to get over a boyfreind especially one over 3 years but dont sweat it put him in the back of your mind and if he starts to creep back in just eat anything you love
2007-06-19 14:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by crazyinluv123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find lots of things to do to keep yourself occupied, get in touch with friends and family you may have lost touch with, but most of all, keep your chin up!
2007-06-19 14:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by flamez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is find something do to get over it. Mabey you could get a new boyfriend.
2007-06-19 14:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving on slowly and juss enjoin the time wit yur friends and family....juss have fun
2007-06-19 14:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋