What would you do if an ex came to you looking for emotional support?

Question

What feel like a safety net or like you are being used?

DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."

Answer 1

I would not. Sounds to me like she is looking for validation and to hear compliments that she is on the right track or is a good person deserving of love. She is turning to you because she feels safe with you. In a way it is a compliment. But they beauty is , if you feel you are being used, you don't have to be anything at all for her.
I would offer kind words as that makes you the better person who deep down cares for someone you shared time with.

Answer 2

Would depend on which ex, and how he left. I don't have many, two are dead (not by my hand, I swear) and one is in hiding in canada for offing his first wife. I guess if we parted friends, I wouldn't mind listening to him, but that's about it.

I'm trying to remember if I parted friends with any.... there were a couple I had to take a shot at to get rid of them. I think I'm in the clear here, the court orders are still in place, so I probably won't have any of them coming to call, lol.

Answer 3

Well if my ex came back it'd be really hard to give her a hand in life from what i hear she does now (drugs). But I wouldn't be able to see her down and out. I'd probably have to do everything i can to help her out and do what i can to support her...its just the way i am i guess...

Answer 4

If you are not in a relationship and you are comfortale be there for him or her. If you are talk on the phone and try to get him to talk to another friend or family member.

Answer 5

I am still friends with my ex's so they always come to me for advice.. pretty much everyone does.. lol so I help people..unless I feel its beyond me.. or just stupid...

Answer 6

feel honored