a guy at my work asked me if i would join a 3some with him and his friend (guy)...they r both HOT...but will the whole office find out? what should i do?
2007-06-19 04:09:04 · 6 answers · asked by sxclilwhtgrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just say no. or have a booty call if you want to it is up to you do what you feel is right
2007-06-19 04:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by rex b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have enough respect for yourself to not do something like that with a co-worker. Yes, the office will more likely find out and the only person that will look bad is you. Plus, so what if they are hot, that doesn't make it ok to do it...Do you honestly think that you are the only female they have asked?? My advise is brush him off, he obviously has NO RESPECT for you.
2007-06-19 04:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Quality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you ask this question means you have an interest, which is sad. Yes, everyone will know. Yes, your job and reputation will be ruined. Yes, you are loose.
Say no and report him for harrassment!!!!
2007-06-19 04:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the whole office will find out. You should be shitty to him for even bringing it up.
2007-06-19 04:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you rellay want to go ahead with it as long as you know they will keep quiet. Tell them you might but they have to keep it quiet or it will never happen again.
2007-06-19 04:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "no".
If he continues to bring up the subject, tell him that his advances are not welcome, and that if he ever brings up the subject again, you will file a sexual harrassment charge against him with your HR department.
2007-06-19 04:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Leah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋