Met this bloke on the weekend and we're getting on really well. We kissed on the weekend and that was it. He's been ringing me lots and texting me lots and we're going for a drink at the weekend.
2007-06-19 03:59:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do it when you feel ready. dont do it to impress or please him though. any decent men will wait until the time is right for both of you. He'll respect you more aswell.
2007-06-19 04:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Scorps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obviously up to you.
but it depends on a few things. Namely how old are you, are you a virgin and do you want a relationship, do you know anyone who knows this guy?
If you're young you might want to wait a bit until you know you're sure and you trust them before you risk a possibly dangerous situation.
If you're a virgin, do you want to be in love with someone the first time you have sex? Are you ready to lose it?
If you're looking for a relationship, are you sure that he does. If he's only been around a few weeks then he might not be looking for the same things as you and you should check in case you get hurt (this works both ways - if you don't and he does)
If you don't know anyone who knows about him, how do you know him after 2 weeks? If you don't mind then it matters less but in terms of safety you might want to consider it.
Basically if you can answer all those questions and you're satisfied with the answer, then it's when you feel ready!
2007-06-19 04:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by aitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy. if ur looking for some old fashioned you know, then go ahead, ur only young once, but make sure there is no potential relationship w/ this guy and its just the sex, cuz afterwards he's gonna think ur a hoochie, but then again u can blam eit on the alcohol! cheers! but on a more serious note, if u really like this guy then u should wait. if he tries to get u drunk this weekend and f*ck u, then thats all he wants, and a relationship is pointless cuz it will only be about the sex. now, if thats what u want then do ur thang honey!
2007-06-19 04:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by ider_angel2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all in your hands...when your ready, your ready. If you wanna know the truth, i don't like easy girls at all if i'm getting into a serious relationship. Because i feel that you have to really get to know each other before all that happens, kisses and cuddling are great. It can take months or maybe even a year, before I would want sex
2007-06-19 04:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Troy Mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the adventure point of the lady. If that is her first time, i think of that is desirable to attend lots longer- for as long as she desires to experience delicate. human beings many times do not seem to prefer as long as quickly as they have had extra adventure. i could say that the minimum time a "female" (particularly than an person) could wait is on the order of a number of months. you may have confidence the guy you're with.
2016-10-18 00:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about how long a person should wait, its about the maturity level, do not be quick to drop the draws of the break, you need to be patient and figure out if this person is crazy or not, do not be nonchalant when it comes to sexual partners, make sure that they been tested for stds,
young ladies should always be more careful about sexual intercourse, because you can easily become pregnant
not trying to scare you, but just trying to inform, be safe
2007-06-19 04:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it go with the flow .... unless you date alot and you have a set of rules that you like to follw i.e. no sex until date 3, then ok , but other wise just go enjoy the date ..... have fun .... but please dont put yourself under the pressure that you need to have sex ... do it if you feel right!!
2007-06-19 04:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Chigzy D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as possible. Make him wait. He will respect you even more! If he leaves you is simply because he only wanted to have fun with you and never saw you as anything serious.
2007-06-19 04:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my partner waited a year before sleeping together we were in no hurry and i needed to be sure he was the one and 19 years later we are still going strong so i would not rush into things you will know your self when the times right
2007-06-19 04:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by julie g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person you are, some women wait, some jump straight in. Tricky question to ask as only u know the answer.!
2007-06-19 04:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋