hi all sorry have to ask becase i think iam going mad .Has i was in the car i took out my babys thinks that have been in the car for a week and want to wash it all and there was some blonde hair on his blacket and hair that looks like its for down blow so i am scraed to ask him about it so any help would be helpful and what do you think i should do thank
2007-06-19 03:58:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its quite possible to have sex with someone in a 45 minute break from work if that is what you are asking.
Question him about it.
2007-06-19 04:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the hair did you find anything else suspicious? The hair could have come from anywhere. Laundry mat fibers get mixed together. Someone else who rode in the car could have had the hair on their clothes.
I would not make a conclusion based off of that unless you found a condom wrapper or something else to give you the impression that sex has occured in the car.
About having an affair at work within 45 minutes, anything is possible for someone who is determined. A vacant room or closet could be an opportunity for people to slip off and have a quickie.
Instead of making up stuff in your mind to drive you nuts. Have a civil conversation with your man before bedtime, instead of asking him if he's cheating ask him how he feels about you and where he envisions his relationship with you in the future. Is there anything he would like to see you work on to make the relationship better.
I can think of one thing. Work on you spelling skills.(Are you dyslexic?) Do more reading and other things to occupy your mind besides him. If he's stepping out on you, there's only two things you can do about it. Sit there and put up with it or leave.
2007-06-19 04:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can have an affair at work with a 45 minute break. You were right to ask your husband about it, and keep your eyes open for any clues that may come up that supports him cheating on you.
If you find more hair like that, ask him again, and don't touch the hair either, you don't know who it belongs to and if they have any medical issues.
2007-06-19 04:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jasper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible but do you have any other reason to suspect him? It is a big step to confront someone on such flimsy evidence. He may have just given someone a lift home from work for example and if you go questioning him and he is inocent all it will do is drive a big wedge between the two of you. If however you have other suspicions already then you gotta confront him otherwise the paranoia will eat at you and ruin things anyway.
2007-06-19 04:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand you writing but, if you are asking if a man can have an affair on a 45 minute break it is, YES. A guy can bust a nut in like a minute so 45 minutes is a long time.
2007-06-19 04:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by nathan r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of time, 45 minutes a day = 3 hs 45 mins in a 5 day working week. Loads of time to meet someone, fall for them, fool about.
2007-06-19 04:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife had two affairs with people she worked with.First decide what questions you want to ask. but consider what you would do if its bed news then just go for it. look at his eyes not just when he is answering but when you are asking too. consider his answers. In my experiance the more detail an excuse has the more likely it isnt true. good luck and if you want to have a chat about it e-mail or im me.
2007-06-22 00:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Eddie W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him just yet!! Go to his work without him knowing and see if you can catch him!! If you have the money hire a private investigator!! If he is always at home and you take care of all the finances and knows where the money goes chances are that he is not cheating!!
2007-06-19 04:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dreamgirl78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to build a strong relationship is to be completely honest (i found out the hard way) anyway it is a scarey thought to think your significant other might be cheating on you but then again its moe comforting to know the truth if your are absolutly too scared tio ask and have the money hire a private detective they are the best way to catch cheaters
2007-06-19 04:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he can have an affair within 45mins- Because I have done that before but never in the car but in the break room bathroom.......You should confront him
2007-06-19 04:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋