i uesd to bi big and chubby, and got no girls the girls i would get were the girls that were uesing me to hide their insecurities wich i dont want that in my life so should i foucs on looseing the weight and after finding a girl . now all i need to do is loose the extra 15 pounds im 5' 9 inches 175 got hard muscular arms but got a little chunky in the middel, and no im not a teddy bear i want to be a man not a teddy bear , so should i focus on loosing weight then get a girl or find one now
2007-06-19 03:51:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think at this point that it really matters. Just go with it and see what happens.
2007-06-19 03:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so i've got been on a weight-help plan for greater or less 2 weeks and that i lost 6 pounds... I dont understand if its adequate for you or for anybody else.. yet this is the 1st time i've got been on a weight-help plan and it feels super to be slightly lighter... to be certain that the what I advise u to do? properly I consume each thing low fat or fat loose.. no soda, no limonade no no longer something purely water all day. i exploit an ab residing room chair for workout.. I do approximately a hundred sit down united stateson it.. 50 and 50 2 cases an afternoon. I consume apples, carrots, cucumbers and different culmination like that. you will desire to stay away from all the white nutrients like bread, potatoes, rice and issues like that. so which you would be able to consume wheat bread fairly of white.. and an incredible sort of vegatables and culmination and water.. u can workout too and that'll assist you a lot too. You dont would desire to overdo it purely walkin slightly as quickly as an afternoon is nice for you. properly doing all this has helped me out so i'm hoping it works for you too! And good success!
2016-09-28 02:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl who likes the way you look now, then lose the weight if it make you feel better. Do you really want a girl that only likes you if you are ripped? What happens when she sees a guy who is more in shape?
Do your self a favor and get a girl you likes you for the type of man you are. Then if you get into cut shape, thats just a bonus!
2007-06-19 03:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Italian Samurai 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something, finding a girl, getting along, etc. is based on your mental abilities to get along, NOT PHYSICAL appearance. You want someone who loves YOU whole heartedly and weight should not matter. I do believe we should all eat well and exercise as this can only benefit us. When the time is right you will meet a nice girl, whether you are a body builder or a couch potatoe should not matter....
2007-06-19 03:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop looking for a girl all together.
First, you should get your body the way you want it to make you happy.
When you are happy with yourself, chances are you'll meet a good girl by accident while you're not even looking for her.
Maybe in the gym.... maybe in the grocery store..... just stop worrying about finding a girl and worry about your goals for yourself.
The girl will come along when you least expect it, and she'll like you for who you are. If you go looking for her, you'll find someone, but it may be the wrong one!~ Let it come naturally!
2007-06-19 03:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by crankyissues 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should lose the weight if you feel you need to, but don't let a realtionship slow you down. If a girl truely likes you she will like you no matter what your weight is. So I say if your interested in some one go for it or you'll regret it later.
2007-06-19 03:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by uteva713 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should get a girl while loosing the weight because then you know that she want you for you and your personality and not just because you look good and she wants to be seen with you. When you get a girl do act all insecure, be happy for who you are and she will be happy to!
2007-06-19 03:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by dgaodg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Include exercise activities in your routine that will allow you to meet girls. Go to your local recreation facility to swim or play basketball; go to a local park to walk, run, or bike; join a health or fitness group or club. Don't worry about getting a girl. If you are participating in these types of activities you will build on your fitness level AND meet girls who are healthy and also focused on fitness. The ladies you meet will appreciate your interest in fitness and value your efforts.
2007-06-19 04:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by leslie b 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should focus on your life and not LOOK for a girl necessarily. Let one find you! If she likes you for who you are now, that's the person you'd want to be with. Then when you do look even better, what a bonus that will be!
2007-06-19 03:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Peach 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my brother is big and he has a Fiance. So a girl shouldn't not like you because you might be big, but for ur personality. It makes me mad when people talk about my brother Big people are no different than skinny people. Heck I bet big people are a whole lot nicer than you think!
2007-06-19 03:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by BeautifulDisaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youll find that girls like you for your personality, do you think that you become magnetic after you lose weight or from the confidence you ooze all the time?
2007-06-19 03:54:27 · answer #11 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋