What to do if a retarded kid likes you?

Question

hes really annoying, hes touchy feely and rough with me, like he writes me notes that says im bold, beautiful and all kinds of weird shi& then when i walk away he will grab me really hard around the neck, like a neck lock and hes tryin to be friendly and it hurts, then he even followed me into the girls bathroom once, i told him to go and he said ok, and then i stayed in there for like 20 min and i walked out and he was still there, i dont want to hurt his feelings, what do you dO?

Answer 1

You should definetely tell your parents about this. You should tell your councelor. He or she will no how to talk to him. You could tell his homeroom or the speacal ed teacher that deals with him.
Another you think you could do is never go by yourself to the restroom. Walk the hallways with some freinds.
The only thing you should worry about is your safety.
You should do one of these things fast. Before something happens to you. Forget about his feeling.

Answer 2

First let me correct you he is not retarded he is mentally challenged, and I am sure he has feelings also, however if he is being rough with you I think that you should have lunch with him one day and tell him that you are not interested in him in a relationship capacity, but you would like to remain friends, therefore he should no longer touch or follow you around, if this approach does not work consult your school counselor or a teacher.

Best of Luck

Answer 3

It sounds like you are at school with this boy. His behaviour is creepy and wrong. Being a retard is no excuse for being a stalker. Tell the teacher - he sounds like he if fixated with you and that is not a good thing. Seek help immediately! I'm serious.

Answer 4

let him down slowly or just lie say i already have a boyfriend but he dosnt go to this school. or like say in 10 years MAYBEY ill date but im not going to this year and thats that. and when u do get one b4 that its not like he hears rumers around the school that u r going out with someone i dont want to be mean but i dont want to hurt the poor guys fellings sorry.

Answer 5

been there, done that. it makes you deel so uncomfortable but you don't want hurt feelings. you need to tell an authority figure, he's not going to just go way on his own. and depending on the level of his mental capacity he wouldn't understand what you were sayinh even if you tried your hardest to explain, you need to tell and authoritive figure. and it's mentally handicapped, not retarded.

Answer 6

Tell someone of what's been going on for your safety. Have that person or his care giver to explain to him that your not interested. I don't know if you should tell him because of how he follows you and grabs you.

Answer 7

does this kid have a carer, like someone who follows them round helping them with school work, if so explain to them or a teacher whats going on and that you want it to stop, and theyll have a word with this guy.

Answer 8

runnnn.. retarded people can be dangerous.. i been around many of them.. 1 minute they are cool but a quick movement will make them snap.. kind of like a pitbull.. no offense to mental people but i dont trust them.. well i dont trust the guys..

Answer 9

is he lyke realli retarded or r u juss sayin that?? well i think u need 2 tell em how u feel even if u do hurt him feeling.......cause its not worth u gettin hurt over.

Answer 10

Explain to him that his actions make you dislike him. Just apply that to everything he does, and he should eventually leave you alone.

You must be sincere yet sympathetic.