i dumped my bf of 2 years just 6 days ago, and he doesnt seemed bothered at all. it is bothering me that he doesnt seem concerned. he is a guy that thinks he is always right, and he thinks that girls should be submissive, and is abusive when he is drunk~!
2007-06-19 02:14:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i shouldnt be bothered at all - but - i ammmmm~~ maybe perhaps cos i want him to suffer - like i did.. its evil -
2007-06-19 02:14:58 · update #1
I understand exactly how you feel! But you need to know that men will never show that kind of emotion over a breakup - in public. He doesn't want you to see how it's affecting him. It's early yet- only 6 days...The best thing you can do is get yourself back on track - get a cute haircut or pedicure, buy and outfit - look good! feel good! This will drive him insane.
He doesn't sound like he's worth crying over - congrats for noticing he's a loser and getting rid of him...the best is yet to come! Good luck.
2007-06-19 02:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sounds tough, but I think he may be acting like it doesn't bother him because of the fact that he is that type of person. If he thinks a woman should always be submissive, then he probably doesn't think women are worth showing emotion over. Or maybe he is abusive because he isn't able to love someone, but needs to have someone that he can control in order to make him feel better. I would want him to hurt to, but you should try and move past this.
2007-06-19 09:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by skittle2203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh trust me, he's bothered. He's just frontin in front of you like he isn't bothered but he is. First of all, guys don't like to get dumped. He's just using reverse physiology. Don't get caught up in it cause that's his game. You know this is best so don't be bothered with him and finally just worry about you. You've already did the hardest thing and that was leave. Be happy and move on.
2007-06-19 09:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I understand what u are going thru and what u are asking here and bottom line is don't look back keep going forward, for your sake and those who are keeping you close to their hearts.
Wishing or desiring ill fate is nothing but bad karma, eventually he will feel his fate and suffer the pain he has inflicted upon you, there is a God trust him and believe...
2007-06-19 09:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk and you are definately better off without him!!
One thing I do know is that guys will not show if they are hurting, it's a sign of weakness, and they certainly won't let their feelings show espically if they have friends around. They will always make like it's no big deal.
2007-06-19 09:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Debra d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it sounds like he has a huge ego and he didn't see the breakup as being that big of a deal, maybe he had wanted to get out of the relationship as well.
2007-06-19 09:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lynnae_1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what happens, you are better off without him. If he acts like he doesn't care he a.) Doesn't want you to know how much he misses you or b.) He is a jerk. Move on, there's good guys out there...
2007-06-19 09:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will have bothered him but being the type of person he is the last thing he wants is to let you know he is upset as that would be him giving in to you.
you have done the right thing just move on.
2007-06-19 09:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by spaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
If you say that he does not seem concerned I would not bother with, obviously you broke up with him for a reason. So just ignore him. I would...
2007-06-19 09:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah- he deserves to suffer. He really does. But that don't seem to be what it looks like right?
Anyway, move on. Don't let him hound your thoughts or time any more. He ain't worth it.
2007-06-19 09:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋