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Question

Should I call him? Or just forget it...or am I just overreacting?
if a guy you have been talking to asked you to call him later first, but since you are tired of calling him all the time...you tell him to call you later instead. what does it mean if he hasn't called you in a week even though he told you, " yeah, you are a very attractive girl." after asking him if he even likes you?

i stopped calling b/c he told me he was talking to two other girls b4 he started to hang out with me. i was mad about this. do i have a right to be mad? or am i overreacting b/c we were not exclusive. i want to call him, but if i do, then he wins. what do you guys think?

this past weekend I sent him a msg on myspace that said "someone is too busy to say 'hi'. can we say 'whore?" and he wrote me a msg that said 'hi'. i commented him back by saying "smart ***".


yesterday I finally called him and played it cool, as if I didn't even remember what our last convo was about. he asked where i have been and how come i have not called him in a while. I just told him i was busy and had things to do, which was true. i told him i got a new job and the only thing he really wanted to know was if i was talking to any guys and if so what their name was. i mentioned i got a new car and he suggested i come over to his house sometime after work during this week. I told him if i have nothing to do and if im up for it. Am i doing the right thing by still talking to him?

this past friday he finally called me first for once arounf 11 pm, but I didn't answer. i didn't want him to think I will always answer his calls. So the next day, he called again but this time around 3 pm. Again, I din't answer. THEN he called me at midnight. I finally answered to see what he wanted. I'm not fully understanding why exactly he is calling me all of a sudden. can anyone think why?

Answer 1

hes calling because he knows u have a car and job!!!!!!!!!! he didn't call before so y now??? because he feels he can get to see u when eva now that ur driving and he keeps ask'n about other dudes in ur life because he wants to see if u will have time for him when he feels like making time for you!!! SELFISH

Answer 2

Sounds like you both are playing games and afraid of getting hurt by rejection. I'm not sure how old you are but who really has time for that? Just be honest with him and yourself and say "Hey do you or do you not want to go out sometime on a date?" If he makes up a story or excuse about being to busy then he's NOT interested. Actions speak louder than words. If he's talking to you about other women than he's either a player or just afraid to make himself
vulnerable to you out of fear of rejection, which means he does like you or he's just too immature and insecure about having a serious relationship. Or again he's a player and just looking to keep as many "bitches" going as possible at the same time. Ask yourself why you really like this guy? Is it just because the way he looks or deep down does he have a good personality to go with that and does he seem like the kind of person that can care for you as a person in the future.

Answer 3

If I were you I'd just move on and look for someone that I had more in common with...He self admittedly has other at least social relationships (but you can't be mad about it if there's no commitment, at least he was honest) I can appreciate how you feel but you need to stop and really think about whether this guy is even worth it....There are a lot of "red flags" you need to notice right now and I'm not sure that trying to bash him on his my space page is gonna do anything at all....If I had to guess (the way he's acting) he already has a girlfriend and your just someone to play around with. Once again, you need to think long and hard about it before you allow something that you'll regret later to happen.

Answer 4

umm... well sounds like he does have interest in you i guess. seems you may be a little on the jealous side because of him talking to the 2 girls. If you are not in a realationship then you both have the right to explore your options. If you are sick of waiting to find out what his next move is (ex. asking you out etc) then I would ask him. Say. "hey are we JUST friends or what?" I had to do that. And ended up in a relationship with the guy for about a year. Anyways stop doing the run around because he may get tired of it and stop talking to you. Ask him how he feels about you or tip toe him to tell him with out you exactly asking.

Answer 5

Sure, you got a new car....whats not to understand.
Theres nothing wrong about talking to a guy, there is something wrong in playing all these games. Wouldn't you like a guy you didn't have to plan out all the pick up, don't pickup, call him, don't call, he calls, you call. I thought you were about twelve until you said you got a car. This isn't the way adults conduct themselves.

Even young adults.

Answer 6

Both of you are playing games with each other and want to see who is in control. Why not just flat out ask him if he wants an exclusive relationship with you? Are you afraid he'll say no and then you won't have a reason to play this game any longer? Sounds like you don't want anything exclusive, either, you just want to play head games with him as much as he wants to play head games with you.

Whatever floats your boat, I guess.

Answer 7

No your not doing the right thing. If he really liked you than you would now. He's just playing games. I personally think the only thing he wants from you is sex. Don't play his game and just move on cause he's not serous about you and you don't want to get used. Lose the loser.

Answer 8

Are you doing the right thing by talking to him? Well, if you guys are 19 and wanting to play dumb games, sure. I wouldn't waste my time or energy on someone wanting to act like that...not as a friend or boyfriend.

Answer 9

the game continues...yup that is whats played by women and men who are not into anything serious..you call me I call you and always busy..then you find out he is into other women..girl ...RUN...he will only hurt you and you will just be another number in his book...we women are always attracted to bad boys...but where does that get us...been there done that...won't anymore. Hon know what you want and settle for nothing less.

Answer 10

It sounds like this guy is just using you. If he can't make the effort to call you, he's really not that interested in you. Forget him. There are plenty more guys around.