this is my situation, any help greatly appreciated!
i'm 29 yrs old. she is 36, she is beautiful, smart, everything i ever wanted...my dream girl. I met her about five weeks ago, during work. we started dating; after three dates we made love. everything felt so good, just right, the good feeling inside.
now the sheit: i had planned a trip to thailand for a year. i go there every year. i have two very close friends that live there, one of them has a child of which i am the godfather. he currenlty is going through some marrital problems. well, anyways upon meeting my girl, i did not want to leave the country- it was just going to be for two weeks. i felt i had to stay and be with her. But she insisted that i had to go. She told me that she would be here when i came back.
Well, i went. I cut my trip short a couple of days- instead of fourteen days it was only 11. Upon my return she tells me that she met someone else.
What do i do?
2007-06-19 00:26:27 · 4 answers · asked by babaganush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing move on she has met someone else . she is obviously interested in them and has forgotten about you . Just get her out of your head and move on . she was probably using you to make this other person jealous tell her good bye . good luck .
2007-06-19 00:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! But you only knew each other five weeks before you left. So you'd been together only a little over a month, right? And she met someone else within eleven days. Maybe she's angry with you for leaving and playing games. See what happens. Tell her you really enjoyed the time you spent together before you left, and that you missed her while you were gone. Let her know that you're interested in picking up where you left off, but don't want to be pushy if she feels it's not the right thing for her. She'll call you if she wants you. If she doesn't, move on.
2007-06-19 07:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know it takes two weeks for a dog/pet to forget you.it only took her 11 days or she may have been seeing this dude while you were still here.Forget the b**** she is not worth it plus she is to old for you anyway.There are tons of single girls your age. Thank your lucky stars that this happened and move on. GOOD LUCK
2007-06-19 07:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by john v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would let go and move on. She is with someone else. U were away for such a short time and she has found someone else.
2007-06-19 07:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋