Hi guys. I met a girl online and have spoken to her over the phone on several occassions. We spoke about once a week and had real, great conversations. We were hitting it off. We even spoke about her coming to visit for a long weekend.
Now, I have not heard from her in almost two weeks. I've called twice and texted once. Could she perhaps just be playing hard to get? I don't want to keep calling and bothering her, but I am worried. I never had a problem getting a hold of her before but now it just seems as though she's dissapeared.
How much longer do I wait before I try and contact her again? Is it possible that she just lost interest? I really don't see how that's possible.
Thanks in advance for the advise, I truly appreciate it. :-)
2007-06-18 18:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a guy I've had great conversations with suddenly disappear, I usually find out later that he's had either an emergency or had been away, and was too busy to pick the phone to call or to email me.
And I've disappeared too, after keeping in touch and chatting or having had great conversations with a guy or two. But I always make sure that I inform him, either before I disappear or when I've had time to stop and take a breath.
It can get worrying, wondering if they're ok, or worse, if you had anything to do with pushing them away suddenly. But, do yourself a favor and stop contacting her until you hear from her next.
I know it's hard, but you'll feel better for it eventually. If you want to be able to get on with your life for now, you could always send her an email, saying you're worried that you hadn't heard from her for a while, and that you hope she's well, and to call or email you when she has the chance. If she's sincere, I promise you you'll hear back from her before you know it!
Good luck!
2007-06-18 18:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by jjai_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think something has happened to her in her life. So she might just be away for a while. I doubt she would want to play hard to get online, because you can easily lose someone you like by doing that. I say you should just try and contact her for a week or so, then wait for her to contact you back. Don't seem too desperate!
2007-06-19 01:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by yz90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no telling really what is going on with her from what i have read, Its possible shes just busy or has other important things she has to attend to. If it bothers you that much...Text her once more. And then, I'd say, All you can do is wait. If she has lost interest...The two of you weren't in anything that serious, all though you two might have had potential, I hope that helps.
2007-06-19 01:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by mimi_sweethart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's odd cause i was chatting to a guy weekly and when I mentioned maybe one day we could meet he sounded fine about it but now he won't speak to me at all. Oh well his loss for sure. I just wanted to see who we we're speaking to. I also think perhaps he is married and I scared him.He is defiantly hiding something maybe your little friend is doing the same. Either that or he died which I doubt as I see he still goes online. Some people are just too weird but you cant see that really through the computer
2007-06-19 01:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she got scared off. Maybe she talked to her family or friends about meeting you and they suggested that she not do that. There are some scary people on the Internet and maybe she's questioning hooking up with a "stranger". You need to give her some space for now and wait for her to contact you. You don't want to look like a stalker.
2007-06-19 01:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something must be up. When you meet someone online you really never know what is going on in their life. Now that you are talking about her coming out for a visit she may have panicked for some reason- another mate, not really interested, no who she said she was etc
2007-06-19 01:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by freakynurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are crazy. Sometimes there is no rhyme or reason to things. She may have broken up with an ex and is now in the process of getting back together with him. You never really know. It probably wasn't even anything you did. Seriously.
2007-06-19 01:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling and texting her. If she is interested, she will call back.
It's strange, but often a guy that is easy to get doesn't seem very valuable. So if you are always the one calling, it makes you seem easy to get and not very mysterious.
I would follow this rule. Only call once. It's up to them to call back. If they don't, move on.
Do not call back. Do not text. If she is interested, she will call.
2007-06-19 01:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rich D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry I don't know girls do crazy things I would just keep bugging here if she has lost interest you have nothing to lose if she is trying to play you then you are doing what she wants.
2007-06-19 01:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by babcnvc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have moved faster than she was comfortable with moving. It may be that she actually is involved with someone local.
You've tried to contact her. Give her another week or two to get back to you, if she doesn't, forget her.
2007-06-19 01:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by WolverLini 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋