i was dating this guy who we met on line and we had a couple of first dates and we realized that we hit it off we were into the same things,we had good conversations had fun and everything but he really told me that he liked me i really liked him too, and asked me wen we were gonna be officially together(as Bf-Gf),we made out by the fourth day,but then i realized that he wasnt into me nomore,he wouldnt answer my calls but txt mssgs yeah,that was weird,so i stopped calling for some days but he never responded back later i figured he was in a relationship,(after we didnt have anymore communication)i was looking for a serious relationship with him but i figured if i was attractive and good looking to him,and we hit it off at the begining ,Why,did it go like this?did he only use me?
2007-06-18 18:48:47 · 13 answers · asked by ShinyGlove 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the last txt mssg he wrote to me was that i miss u,(after i knew about his relationship)i dont think he never knew that i knew he was with someone else.
2007-06-18 18:53:28 · update #1
you learned a big lesson early.... that many men (and apparently boys) are usually checking out to see if there is something better than what they have. I am sorry you got your heart broken and feelings hurt. You should let him know how you feel about what HE did to you, he may not respond but for closure for yourself, let it be heard, read or texted.
The other thing, when you meet guys online, REALLY GET TO KNOW THEM, know their schedules and when YOU feel it's safe for you to meet, take it very slowly, don't be too anxious to gain experience or to "show how much you care'
2007-06-18 18:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it ,that's what dating is,you trial different people and you can't always get what you want ,well not right away.I bet your've done the same to other guys in the past right,and left them thinking "what happened,i thought this was great" but you thought otherwise.
It's a little annoying and unfortunate but keep ur chin up,don't rebound on the next suitor,take some time to get urself back on track ,and re enter the dating market when you have a clear level head again.Also don't just try and work your "attractive card",sell your personality first and foremost.
all the best ;)
2007-06-18 18:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably interested in you but comitted to another relationship. He should have never gone looking - the creep. you poor thing, just go on with your life and consider him a bad part of it. Live and learn.
2007-06-18 18:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun the last line in your question says it all..
He probably has a relationship and was looking for a little on the side..
Sorry but that is what I see here..
Move on and forget that one....he is a lost cause...
2007-06-18 18:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rebel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What went wrong on your date is the first couple of words
I met this guy on the internet
Most of "those" realationships dont work, dont bring yourself down
2007-06-18 18:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Klaudiaisbananaz 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
he just wasn't that into you. move on girl! i bet you're really pretty and have a great personality. Don't waste your time on him. I know it sounds harsh, but it'll be the best decision you'll make.
2007-06-18 18:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by spntayhneeyuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i grew to become into on a widespread date with a woman, we went to a rigidity-in action picture and started making out. i assumed issues have been going large and theory i grew to become into going to get laid. I pulled my dink out and he or she style of freaked out and stopped kissing me, she pronounced she needed to bypass domicile. i grew to become into so embarrassed and ashamed. She grew to become into suitable in the way she reacted. I zipped up and took her domicile and apologized all the thank you to her domicile. i ought to on no account look her in the attention returned after that. She on no account pronounced it with any of her friends and that i on no account caught any hell over my stupid mistake. I merely want i ought to bypass returned in time in order that i ought to take that 2nd returned and bypass approximately issues the remarkable way. I discovered lots from that one night and could on no account overlook what an asshat i grew to become into. i will snigger now, yet I guess I nevertheless ought to no longer look her in the attention to this present day.
2016-12-13 07:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tinc u gave in to him to early babe..well erm i tinc he kinda make use of u..
its orite gal..move on..make it a lesson to u nt to trust a stranger too much..
likin e same stuffs doesnt mean u guys fit wid each other..
well babe like n luv its 2 diff thing..he can like u means he can like any1 else at e same time too..
chill aite gal..
winx*
2007-06-18 19:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha. the same thing hpnd to me..anyway... just forget about him. ya. he probably did use u. but he's an asshole. so just show him that u dnt care.
2007-06-19 05:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by shorty babee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hes a player!
2007-06-18 18:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by moo is the best 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋