what do i do?
2007-06-18 18:43:31 · 23 answers · asked by kool_mysterious_kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not worry about a boyfriend right now the time will come
2007-06-22 11:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by leo s 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just because a lot of kids at your school have a boyfriend doesn't mean anything. Believe me, you have so much time in your life to worry about boyfriends. When you meet the right guy, you'll know it. For the present time, focus on your schoolwork, family, friends, hobbies, stuff like that. Also, to expand your network of friends and meeting people, I would suggest maybe joining an extracirricular activity at your school. Good luck!
2007-06-18 18:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by cc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i have learned from experiance that it isnt all that great to have something everyone else has. it may not seem like it but once you have that thing you dont feel as strongly about it. Just let the boy come to you dont try to find him. everything will work out. and maybe youll have a bf when everyone else doesnt so youll feel special..lol
2007-06-26 17:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush it-- it will happen even if it takes a while a good guy will come along-- dont worry and just stay happy. Love is like a butterfly; when u chase it, it flies away, but when u sit and wait it comes and sits on ur shoulder-- embrace youth.
plus i didnt get a bf until 12th grade-- boys can waste so much time and having one is extremely overrated-- goodluck
2007-06-18 18:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by cheryl l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going into 8th grade too. and yet dont have a boyfriend. just be yourself. just because other people have boyfriends doesnt mean a thing. just be yourself. it doesnt matter what other people have. personally i like to be different. and being single is a lot better then having a boyfreind you can flirt with a bunch of guys=D hmm. just wait till highschool. itll be soo much better then.
2007-06-18 18:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by SI SENORA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously...it sounds cliche, but just be yourself and the right things will happen. I didn't have a boyfriend until high school (and I am happily married now). I think that a lot of girls have boyfriends just because they can. Relationships are hard work and will take a lot of energy...don't just "do something" to get a boyfriend. respect yourself. and think about why you want a boyfriend...just to be like the other girls? boring!!!!!!!!! relationships aren't status symbols! good luck!
2007-06-18 18:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by heidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If you just want a boyfriend because everyone else has one, then you probably aren't ready to have one anyways. Just worry about school for now, eventually you'll find a good boyfriend later. Most guys that are around that age just want to go out with you for your poontang anyways, so be careful.
2007-06-18 18:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by spike_spiegel40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe i have that problem. Anyway yea boyfriends might seem like all that and all but really guys our age are so immature it is ridiculous, they only fall for the ones who put on tons of make up and wear really tight clothes. They just like these girls for their looks and not their personality. I DO NOT want that. When i fall in love i want it to be with someone who really loves not who just wants me to get in bed with him if you know what i mean. Plus it is not that bad being single you never have to worry about being heartbroken and you can flirt with anyone you want to and not get in trouble. Anyway you can look for love. Love will find you.
2007-06-26 17:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, What I didn't realize at your age is that boys don't notice girls that aren't eye catching. I was overweight with short hair and glasses. By the time of my 10 year class reunion, it had all changed...3 guys asked me out from my class from seeing me at the reunion. Be true to yourself, but realize they are visually stimulated and are attracted to long hair, feminity, a cute figure...I wish someone had clued me in...You're smart to ask.
2007-06-26 18:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by angieblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I had to go through it ALL this year. I got a boyfriend, but I didn't really like him. To answer your question, find someone you like. Try to start talking to him. If he's interested he'll probably ask you out.
2007-06-26 13:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jamaican girl<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably feels maddening. Don't push yourself. Find people you like and hang with them and do thing with them. Trust me, you'll find someone more readily if you don't act like you want a boyfriend, any boyfriend.
I know you'd prefer an instant solution, but this will be better.
2007-06-18 19:00:20 · answer #11 · answered by WolverLini 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋