ok... a guy that is 5yrs older than me wants us to be friends with benefits (he has a gf too). He keeps saying he wants to make out with me...I will have to sneak out at night to see him though. I really really like him and we have been friends for a LONG time. i dont know if I should trust him though because he has a gf. We talk constantly about making out and how we both want to do it.
Should I trust him????????? I need help!!!
2007-06-18 18:42:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO ! NO ! NO ! NO! NO!
Sheesh. Younger girls are easier to con into whatever they want. Not to mention it's illegal. AND cheating.
He doesn't respect you and something is wrong if he wants to hang out/make out with a 13 yr old.
You may be mature for your age, but have some dignity, demand respect, it all begins now. What you do from now on will either haunt you and follow you, or make you a respected woman in the future that everyone WISHES they had.
2007-06-18 18:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by MojoLoco 2 · 12⤊ 0⤋
Okkkk... just so you know that if you make out with him and it leads to sex, it wouldn't be called making love but it will be reffered to as statutory rape... BY THE COURT OF LAW! ((statutory rape- the crime of sex with a minor under the age of consent... even if you say it's ok)). Obviously this hormonal highschooler doesn't want you for your brains because you are 13 and have nothing in common with an 18 year old. Have you been to highschool parties? do u know what alcohol tastes like? Do you know your reaction to getting drunk? Do u know what high school girls talk about? Have you any idea about sex? or how to use a condom? are you on birth control? Do u even have ur period? Name two types of STDs? He says he wants to make out with you but in reality he's waiting for you to eat his penis. If you don't know what that is or how to do it then you are too young to leave the house let alone sneak out. Where the hell are your parents?!You are one step away from being like every other air head girl in middle/highschool. Yes you do need help. Mental help!
2007-06-18 18:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by MsMoneyBags22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you wrote, it seems like all this guy wants is to "make out", he has a girlfriend, and he is a lot older than you. I understand that you like him a lot but I hope you'll just refuse. There will be a guy that is untied, and a little closer to your age that you can make out with. This guy sounds like nothing but a loser (and think about it, he would be cheating on his gf), a guy like that will never stop being a cheater, and you prolly dont want that. Good luck and I hope I helped.
2007-06-18 19:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word: NO!!!!
This guy only wants you for sex and he is 18. If for no other reason not to trust him, you could:
1. get pregnant,
2. get raped forcibly
3. In most states, having sex with him means he'll have committed a serious sex crime against you, which would ruin his life and your's too
4. you could get a sexually transmitted disease--perhaps HIV--are you really sure you want to risk having to take a small pharmacy of pill every day for the rest of your life??
There is really no good side for you getting closer to this guy. Please don't.
2007-06-18 19:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by WolverLini 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u cant give ur virginity to anyone or if u like him but dont forget that he has a GF too so plz dont do that he just want to spend one night with u and after that night he will say "night over discussion over". and U better keep that for ur Life partner
2007-06-18 18:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by desertrose143_me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should trust him. hes 18.
you may talk about making out. but he probably wants more.
i know im only 13. and i have many friends who date guys that age. or get involved with them. its Honestly sometimes lame. you might end up gettng hurt. and we dont want that. He has a gf. let him do **** with her. dont get to involved with him even thought you like him.
2007-06-18 18:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by SI SENORA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!! As soon as he gets what he wants he will be gone. You are way to young to be having sex anyways, or making out with an 18 year old. Don' t do it, u will just regret it later on.
2007-06-18 18:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he only wants one thing. When he gets he will move on. Why should you give it- what is your benefit? An 18 yo should not be hitting on a 13yo. In most states it is illegal.
2007-06-18 18:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by freakynurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend and is wanting to cheat on her with you, then that means he is a liar and untrustworthy. Plus the whole "friends with benefits" concept, in your situation it means he just wants to use you and really does not care about you.
Don't trust him!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-18 18:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by lakeshore8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13! He's using you! He has a gf. All he wants is to get laid. All you'll ever be to him is someone to sleep with. I'm sorry but it's the truth. I hope you wise up.
2007-06-18 18:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋