my fiancee is cursing at me, calling me a f*#@&ng ***** and saying things like he should break my neck. The next morning he says he doesn't remember it happening. He appears to be fully awake and coherent and it happens more and more frequently. Is this something I should be afraid of? How do I know if he is serious or if it is just something on a subconsious level. What shold I do?
2007-06-18 17:42:04 · 33 answers · asked by fnkyjunkie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I probably would not be living with him. I would send him to a sleep disorder clinic to see if he does the same thing. That would be scary for certain. I will pray for you. If you feel scared, I would not sleep with him at all. Try sleeping in separate rooms and see if he yells the same or comes to where you are. If he doesn't sleep walk, then I would feel like there was more to it. I think a sleep study would help.
2007-06-18 17:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband use to have moments like this when we first got married. He probably is not awake and they wont remember anything they do or say. A lot of times it is brought on by stress either at home or at work. Try to get him to talk to you. But go with your gut. You could see if he would see a doctor about this. My husband was so violent that I thought about writing a note that said what was going on so If they found me they would know what was happining. My husband was able to open up to me after a while and now it rarly ever happens.
2007-06-18 17:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like adult night terrors. It is when you wake up and start screaming and yelling. The person can look totally awake. And the next morning you dont remember it. You should seriously have him see a psychologyst he may be having subconciouse issues.
2007-06-18 17:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by CoCoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's mentally embalanced, this could be seious if he gets violent in his sleep an dcant remember his outbursts he needs 2 seek professional help, if he thinks hes asleep he might physically harm u, I heard a murder case like that on Dateline NBC a guy killed his wife but he thouhgt he was asleep dreaming. This might be grounds for sending him to a sleep doctor for a sleep study, somethings wrong, nip it in the butt before its to late!
2007-06-18 17:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nay Nay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A SUBCONSCIOUS LEVEL. Are you being serious with that. Yeah, I call people a f*cking b*tch subconsciously and say that I'm going to break their neck. No, subconscious is breathing, or putting your arms up to block your face if you're about to get hit. Not swearing and threating. Sorry.
Truthfuly, if you're old enough to have a fiancee you should know better than that.
2007-06-18 17:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by Poopdragon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was a kid I tried to urinate in my living room, I had some weird sleep walking issues. Luckily my dad caught me. :)
Also, my wife told me that one night I woke her up, I was punching my pillow and mumbling something.
What I think may be going on here is maybe his mind is reliving a bad relationship, maybe she cheated on him and he is letting it out. Our minds do weird things when we sleep. I would definitely get it on tape and ask him about his past. This may turn dangerous, more so than it is now.
If you care for him, help him through it, don't just up and leave him.
2007-06-18 17:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by mighty_anubis1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your fiancee to go to a professional and get it checked out. What ever it is needs to be dealt with before you two get married.
2007-06-18 18:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Claudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is having night terrors. You should actually be worried and it is very serious. He needs to look into getting some sort of help. There are medications that he can take.
2007-06-18 17:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its prob a type of sleep walking condition like when people eat or even kill in there sleep and either say or sometimes have no actual recollection of it he should go see a therapist and a sleep Dr. just in case
2007-06-18 18:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter if he means it or not, this is something that should call your attention.. it may be better to find a solution to this as early as possible so go and ask your doctor right away. make sure you don't make him feel like you think he's crazy though..
2007-06-18 17:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋