I just met this guy like 3-4 weeks ago at my best friend's baptism, he's her cousin. That night, my friend asked me to hang out with her and him and a couple of other people, so we've been kinda group dating. It was always him, his best friend and me and my best friend. My friend told me he likes me and he really has taken an interest in me. He asked my number only a week ago, and my mom already wants to meet him! We've only been on alone dates two times, and the first time it was barely a date, just a walk around my neighborhood. The only thing we;ve done so far is hold hands, but that was like for a couple of minutes! I'm still shy around him, and even though he talks alot, I can tell he's kinda nervous too. He just said he's guna come over tomarrow night and I don't know what to do! We're not even officially dating yet, and he's the first guy I'm ever taking serious, no other guy i've hung out with has ever met my parents, but my mom really wants to meet him! I'M FREAKING OUT!
2007-06-18 17:22:57 · 18 answers · asked by Chic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what to talk to him about, what to do when he's here, I'm so nervous. My mom likes him so far, from what she's heard from my best friend's parents and from me, and my dad does too. I'm just really freaked out about what's going to happen! What if it's guna be so awkward and no one talks! I don't even know what kind of food to serve or anything!
2007-06-18 17:24:15 · update #1
Be cool. Stay calm. You sound excited and you should be if this is the first guy you've really felt connected to. I know it's really hard, but try not to think of this guy as "the one". Just think of him as a possibility and have fun. He should be like one of your friends, someone you have a lot in common with. The reality is our interests change over time, and so do our partners. However, don't think about this future possibility, stay in the moment with your new guy, and keep yourself aligned. When we are young we tend to go with what are parents like or dislike. I think parental opinion is okay, but it is just an opinion. Of course, moms are good at detecting bad vibes. So, let him meet your parents, serve something you like to eat, and get to know him. You aren't marrying the guy, so don't be nervous or make the situation out to be more than just having a friend over you happen to be sexually attracted to.
2007-06-18 17:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by anti-imperialistzombie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy, act normal, don't worry about what to talk things will come out. As he wants to meet your parents that's a good sign which means he is not fooling around,you will reach the end of the stairs step by step.As for what to serve him it depends what time he is comming make it simple like small sandwiches and tea.
2007-06-18 17:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by maram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound you so I am going to be kind. Act natural. Be yourself. Tell him to be himself and act natural. You don't want your parents to think you are doing "It". They will never let you see this geek again. Consider it as a friend coming over and not someone you like. The relationship will flower all on its own and when it does "it's on". I say make sure you get on some kind of birth control. I think your parents would be pissed if they became grandparents. Be smart and say not do drugs...
2007-06-18 17:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by wyatt0795 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Really, don't.
This isn't a bad opportunity for YOU to get to know him.
Your mother will take care of the food, and your father will take care of conversation (or vice versa if dad grills burgers that night).
Does he insist on helping with the dishes? If not, bad sign.
Does he criticize your dad's choices on the TV remote? If he does, bad sign.
Just relax. This is a really good opportunity to watch and learn things about him.
2007-06-18 17:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by open4one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably its the first time u're getting into a r/ship. so u're kinda freaking out badly! well, just be urself when u're with him. im sure he likes ur character but not the looks right? let him know how u're feeling and understand his as well. and since u're parents are SO interested in knowing him, let them! abt what food the serve and stuff, ask ur mum to do the work! i'm sure she knows what to do.
2007-06-18 17:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by von 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Ask him how he wants to be introduced to your parents. (Friend....whatever else....) That will also let you know where things might be going with him. Keep things low key, maybe a quick into before you go to a movie? Good luck....it's nerve racking, but once it's over, you will be so much more relaxed.
2007-06-18 17:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to act normal and don't freak out, just think that everything will come out right. And after a while you both will start being less shy, just try to talk about something both of you are interested in.
2007-06-18 17:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by viv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
verify he doesnt scent like smoke or alcohol whilst he comes over, verify he hasnt been ingesting in any respect so he could have a sparkling head and merely have him be well mannered and respectful on your mothers and fathers. merely teach your mothers and fathers how happy you're with him.
2016-10-17 23:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax jus be ur self cuz if u aren't then its really baad cuz he wont know who u really r and umm jus try to relax and let things happen about the food tell ur mom to help u cook she should know
2007-06-18 17:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax you'll be fine. your mom will lead the conversations and it will flow from there. as for food. don't do fancy. do comfort foods. french fries and burgers or pizza. have fun and good luck. playing cards are always a good time for visits too
2007-06-18 17:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋