i met this guy and we started going out.. he is so cool, nice .. but weeks into this he told me he loved me... yes...... and well i went with the motion. now a few days later he starts ignoring my calls and messages.. well we finally talked didnt get anywhere.. but the next day he messaged me that he just knows that i am going through alot and he just wants to slow it down a little .. but he doesnt want me to be mad at him.. what should i do....? is he trying to get me off his back slowly. w.out trying to hurt me.. do u think he still like me??
2007-06-18 16:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you had sex with him he is dumping you...sort of. He wants you to keep wanting him so if he wants sex again and no one else is available you can do the job.
2007-06-18 16:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to ask yourself if this guy is worth the investment of your energy. If you say yes then do this. Pull back yourself. Tell him thank you for taking it slow and call him less. Make the phone calls shorter and be happy on the phone. Flirt with him but then cut the call short. You be the one to end the call but be very nice and sweat. Don't tell him everything your doing in detail. Change a little something about yourself... Then if he comes around great. If not he is just emotionally immature. Work on yourself and be happy...
I know this may sound petty (my advice) but if you really like him and he is fickle... then you have to do this in order to get him. My opinion is that if he is fickle you may well deserve better.
2007-06-18 16:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shaggy2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never "liked" you, any more than he had to have sex with you. You were a notch in the best, so you chalk it up to experience. He got what he came for, and now he's on to fresh meat. You, unfortunately, are yesterday's leftovers. He's got a pretty smooth line, admittedly, but yep, he's done. Sorry. :-(
2007-06-18 16:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I went with the motion" so you don't love him? Never tell someone you love them when you dont. They may be able to catch on to that. whats wrong with taking it slow? maybe he realized that is what he wants to do?
2007-06-18 16:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by lil vamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you do what he said... Slow down and stop over analyzing things. If you can't do that then dump him and move on.
2007-06-18 16:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i like this guy and we want thouth the same thing as
your goig thouth .what did i do i find him a ask him like in to his eye you can tall if he really love you, you got to remaber how you to ment you can do it . me and my guy are hapy you can do this .just be make sure you love .
2007-06-18 16:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him again and ask him if he still wants to be with you and tell him how you feel about everything that is going on ....
2007-06-18 16:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grl he doesnt like u he just wana hurt u....he probley likes sme1 else srry i dont wana hurt ur feelings but guys are jerks thats wat they do usually y do u think im single for.i got hurt so much.and i got use to it getting hurt.
2007-06-18 16:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by shahreenxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will answer you with a question.... did you get physical with him after he told you he loved you? If so, think about it....
2007-06-18 16:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by turtle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a game and if you slept with him the game worked...move on really...
2007-06-18 16:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋