i have a baby coming in like 7 mons and i dont kno what do? and i am sick with cancer
2007-06-18 16:06:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why did my gf was not on the pill why did she make a baby is it bec of my cacner
2007-06-18 16:06:57 · update #1
my gf mean lots to me she like evey thing to me
2007-06-18 16:08:29 · update #2
should i help her
i just dontkno
2007-06-18 16:12:04 · update #3
i had a comin
2007-06-18 16:13:17 · update #4
i did use a condom
2007-06-18 16:13:39 · update #5
i will not leave her like this or my baby if i die?
2007-06-18 16:15:43 · update #6
she told me to back off why
2007-06-18 16:17:03 · update #7
i feel like to just giveup now with this cacner
2007-06-18 16:18:10 · update #8
owasso where i live in ok
2007-06-18 16:22:27 · update #9
well first of all, having cancer isnt the end of being loved.i hope that you are geting treatment.as far as your girlfriend being pregnat and why,well i think this is something that you should ask her and accept the blessing that god has put into you life.having a child is a blessing from god........unfortunatly not everyone gets that blessing.good luck,take care of yourself and hope that you are getting treatment for your cancer.you can be a survivor like many others!!
2007-06-18 16:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by fishin for answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you will be happy when the baby comes. I guarantee this child would change you whole view point on life. Right now you see life as a means to an end, a child is a new beginning a continuation of life, a continuation of your life.
2007-06-18 23:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..I'm sorry to hear of your cancer..but today there is quite a bit of help for cancer patients..Don't give up!
People do things for different reasons..Maybe she loves you so much..That's why she wants to have your child..
There is a lot of medical help out there..Get all the help you can get..Get different opinions..You sound like you're giving up already! Don't!
Don't give up.. Good Luck and God Bless you!
2007-06-18 23:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not her fault entirely, you could have worn a condom, She didn't make this baby on her own. Have you stopped to think that she is scared and nervous too? I truly feel for you having cancer and all, but you need to focus on your woman, your baby and your recovery, not self-pity.
2007-06-18 23:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by Top Secret :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o my goodness. I'm so sorry about your situation. i have to say though, I think it's wrong to get your girlfriend pregnant when you're not married. please don't abort the baby. if you and your girlfriend can't handle the baby, put it up for adoption but i think it would be awful to abort it. can i ask, is your cancer treatable?
2007-06-18 23:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-18 23:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why didn't you where a condom?
It's not to late to abort, or plan to adopt out the baby.
2007-06-18 23:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by energeticthinker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her why she did it? I would almost bet that the answer will be because she loves you and want to have your child and always have a part of the two of you.
2007-06-18 23:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the baby a toy or something to help think of you when it gets older.
2007-06-18 23:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you only depend on her to take the pill, you should have had your own protection too.
2007-06-18 23:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋