i've been dating this girl for a while and right now i feel i want to get serious but she tells me she is scared to get serious because she's been hurt before and she's heard everything that i said before from other people that hurt her.
how do i show her she can trust me? or maybe im not seeing what the real problem is anyone wanna point it out for me.
2007-06-18 16:02:40 · 4 answers · asked by aiolos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For one thing, she has been hurt before, so she is scared. With you telling her you want to get serious, that is putting pressure on her and making her feel very nervous.
If you really care about her, try being her friend first. Put aside the "serious" for now.
If you cannot do this or do not want to do this, then step away from her and the relationship before you both get hurt.
2007-06-18 16:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by dark_amaranth 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey maybe she doesnt want anything serious with you.. or maybe she is really hurt, and in that case you should wait for her to let you be with her on a serious relationship... however, i think this is going to take a long time, and you should look for another woman
2007-06-18 23:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that she doesn't want to get closer but she is like me and doesn't want to get hurt again. She is just trying to guard herself, give her time and she will come around when she is ready but if you push her you will loose her so be careful. there isn't really a problem just her being cautious
2007-06-18 23:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by !~!GoTHPuNkChICk!~! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time on a chic like this. No matter what you do you will never break down that wall she's put up between you.
2007-06-18 23:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋