Am I crazy or something? Don't say I'm too young or anything please.?

Question

Am I crazy to want a relationship like Romeo and Juliet? You know climb to my window say he loves me give me flowers. Stand outside my window in the rain.I want my guy to be my Prince Charming.I love my bf alot! I feel like I'm trying to hard? I mean he calls me but I'll tell a 5min story and all he says is "thats cool."We'll go to the mall and It's like he's scared to talk to me. He'll like start to say something then he'll say nevermind. I dont know whats wrong with him. if it helps I'm 14

I want my romance like the Notebook. The perfect Romantic movie.

Yea he is a little shy. We've been goin out for only a week so.. thats probably a reason

he's climbed up to my window a couple of times. Just to say hi. He brought me white castle once. So he gets me and he's kind-of a romeo

Answer 1

Hey! I'm 14 too and i know what you mean with the Romeo and Juliet idealization of romance. In real life i think it would get a little cheezy after a while. But as for your bf....guys at our age and a little older are basically all like that. My bf wiill do the same thing but i've learned to accept it. He doesn't talk when he doesn't need to and i'm fine with that. Tell your boyfriend that its okay to talk! Ask him about his weekend/day/friends/whatever. He'll start talking eventually.

Answer 2

Are u sure u want to be like Romeo and Juliet sweetie

U do know they dead( right) they dead young I think they were about ur age too so maybe u want to chose someone else.

But anyway u sound like ur a romanic at heart and u want nice tings in ur relationship ( u have that right and I hope u get it) but the thing u need to realize everything is not always like u rea in the fairy tale books or what u see in the movies or t.v.

this is real life I agree and understand u wanting a Prince Charming, but ur young and u have your whole life ahead of u and u may think each guy u met and becomes ur boyfriend is ur Prince Charming but what u mau be doing is seting ur self up to be disappointed, just enjoy the relationship and don't try so hard to be like those in the fairy tale books.

U will have time for that soon enough as ur growing into a woman u feelings and thought are going to change as u get older. So for now enjoy being young, write down the things u want in life keep it and I bet as u get older u will see that some on the things u want u will have changed.

God Bless and Good Luck

Answer 3

Yes, you are being kinda crazy.

1) You can't make a real life romance like the Notebook.
2) Very few guys think about romance like you do at at your age, those guys are the geeks or nice guys, and even those guys aren't too great.
3) More likely than not you won't meet the one until much later in life and you will look back to how you feel now and wonder, "Wow, I can't believe I thought that."
4) Relax, ease up on your boyfriend and the 5 minute talks, try to be cool and not put so many impossible expectations on him.

4) Tragic romances aren't really

Answer 4

Hey 14 is still young. It's every girls dream to be a guys last romance and it's every guy's dream to be a girls first love. So it's completely normal to want a guy who is like Romeo. At the same time guys mature slower than girls so you might be outgoing and ready to go in a relationship but, your boyfriend might be a little leery and shy. Most guys are still shy around their girlfriends and stuff they're new at this just like you... When he says nevermind just encourage him and let him know you want to know what he has to say too. You might also want to encourage him to be in the conversation more. Just a few little tips... But, don't get too bent over backwards about a relationship until after high school...

Answer 5

I'm going to say you're young, but only to say that you have plenty more time to find your perfect guy. Don't rush into anything right now. I'm 16 and I used to be the same way. At this age, most guys are just in the relationship to be in a relationship. They're not really there for commitment. I'm not saying all guys your age are like that, but most are. Don't worry, as you get older, you'll find the guy you want. There are some really great guys out there. You just have to wait sometimes.

Good luck with everything =)

Answer 6

It's perfectly fine to want this - but to EXPECT it is another thing altogether...

I'm sure there are things your b/f does that puts a huge smile on your face - perhaps talking on the phone (or in public) just aren't his thing. If you can handle any shortcomings your b/f has, then everything else he does is pure gold :)

Guys will get a little more mature as you get older - but a true Romeo might elude you even then...

Answer 7

OK so you probably wont find prince charming.. but maybe close.. right now all u can really have is books, tv and best of all your dreams and imagination... second you are way to young to have some guy climbing up to your window.. this day in time.. somebody would probably call the cops...

Answer 8

The truth is, i dont think i have ever heard about a perfect relationship but your 14, you have plenty of time to figure it out, and as for the current bf maybe hes just uncomfortable around you (nothing bad) but it happens, maybe you to just need to be more open with each other and tell him how you feel,

Answer 9

dont worry, i dont htink ur too young to feel this way (i feel the sam eway tto, alsosame age) but i guess the real deal is that, in this century, (not much)of romance exists anymore, and all 'love' has com to lust, so u may be asking alittle from him that he feels he cant giv u. as for finding out wats wrong with him, just talk to him, ask him wats up, tell him how u feel towards the way hes been acting.


hope everything turns out well!!

Answer 10

Do you know how Romeo and Juliet ends? You might give the play a quick read before you decide that's what you want...