My boyfriend of 7 years recently had to start dating some other girl to keep her quiet. If he walks and she talks, he'll go to jail.
I don't want him in jail but i feel awful that he is dating her and me and i have keep doin the hide and seek game. She does not know about me.
I love him a lot but i can't seem to find a way out of this situation. He loves me too. What should i do?
2007-06-18 11:19:55 · 17 answers · asked by sugarhoneygirl2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Our love is true but.." Will you just listen to yourself!
"had to start dating some other girl to keep her quiet. If he walks and she talks, he'll go to jail. "
Only two situations come to mind when you say something like that. Either she has him dead to rights on a statutory rape charge, or she witnessed him in a criminal act. Either way, he made his decision and picked the other girl!
If he is dating another girl, you don't have to leave him, he has already left you!!!
Wake up and pack your junk girl and get away from that looser!
Doc
2007-06-18 11:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not give your age but I will tell you what I honestly think. None of this sounds real but......
You have been with this guy for 7 years and you are caught up in blackmail???
There seems to be a GREAT deal of dishonesty going on with ALL of you. I cannot understand , for the life of me, WHY anyone would be a part of this sick, unhealthy situation.? It seems like you have wasted years on this loser.
You sound very co-dependent of this guy and you get self esteem from other people???
The further and FASTER you get away from all this, the better off you will be-- Somehow I think that you already know this.
You need to get a backbone and start to get with HEALTHY people who will be TRUE friends and help you will a healthy self- esteem. Join a Church ??
Do your parents know about this situation?? Sometimes Dads are very very good advisors on what seems best for you
Good Luck and God Bless You
2007-06-18 18:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch!! damm this is a tricky one i think hmm. i dont blame you for how your feeling, this must be very stressful and frustrating for you, but i dont understand why hel go jail if he walks??? and if shes dating him to keep quiet, from my knowledge its in a way bribing or blackmailing somebody which can be a criminal offense as well. im not going to ask what he did because i respect your privacy on that but whateva your bf has done, if it ends up with him in jail he must have done something serious unless shes blackmailing him by saying that when he might not. this is a really tricky one really i think but i really hope things get better and she gets bored of your bf, because she is being seriously out of order towards you, would it help if your bf told her that he already has a gf ?? if u think it will make her talk then fair enough, your bf must have commited something serious if hes risking jail. i know this might not have helped alot but i really hope things get better extremely soon for you both!! you have my full sympathy!! :) ask if you need more advice ok :) xx
2007-06-18 18:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by lovestruck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In movies they usually kill that character but the lovers always get busted , so don't do it....
Is it that serious (the secret)? :
- If no , he better turn in , because in this way he will be yours (after a while) . If both of U continue like this he WILL "walk" and she will "talk" & he will go to jail.
- But if he has to stay in jail for more that 3-5 years... never mind , U will forget him , LEAVE !
2007-06-18 18:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Cant really answer without knowing why (dont expect you to say!) But i cant really think of a reason why you should have to go through that.
Maybe seperate until she get's bored and then see if you still like each other?
I presume its true? and he's not making it up as an excuse just to see both of you? (sorry bit sinical).
Dont suppose you've got anything to blackmail her with, to keep her quiet? you tell / I tell sort a thing.
Monkey
2007-06-18 18:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by Monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think about this for a minute. If he dates her or eventually breaks up with her, she is going to talk regardless. What are you thinking??? Breaking it off with her with later will give her more incentive to rat him out. He needs to just invent a "story" and make her a lie. Otherwise, tell him to serve his time. No matter what, she is going to talk...your justing wasting your time.
2007-06-18 18:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by precious girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a really weird situation, I would stay far away from it.
Tell your boyfriend to give you a call when he has worked this issue out.
2007-06-18 18:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let him go to jail. if your love is true then you should be able to stay together til the end. i kno it'll be hard but i kno you can do it. believe in ur self and trust your heart.
2007-06-18 18:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by cypress_0511 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-18 18:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what in possible that your boyfriend could of did. I think you should make sure he is not lieing to you just to date some one else, Please don't be played by this man of yours. Becasue if he is sleeping with her than coming back to sleep with you that dangerous, because you don't know who she is sleeping with.
2007-06-18 18:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋