I feel sorry for women these days. The men are so disappointing...?

Question

who agrees with me, the men today are just so lame and such dogs. its impossible for them to stay faithful, no matter how beautiful, sweet, funny,supportive, smart, or successful their woman might be. we women do not deserve this treatment, and the only ones who are willing to treat a woman right are the ugly ones who nobody wants.

Answer 1

Probably just the ones you're finding. People almost always get exactly what they're looking for so perhaps you should take some responsibility for your own situation and take a hard look at what you're looking for.

If all of the men you end up with have flawed personalities then I can almost guarantee personality is pretty low on your list and therefore actually you do deserve it. After all the one consistent feature of all your bad relationships is you.

Answer 2

I'm sorry if you've been hurt or know women that have been hurt close around you. I agree that there are A LOT of men that treat women like crap these days. No respect or appreciation. But, please don't be as pessimistic as to say there are NONE or if they are they're ugly because that's not true. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and he's been every bit as great, if not better than when we first starting dating. I mean, opens doors, pulls out chairs, flowers every other week, etc. And he's very good looking. I also have friends that have great guys as well. While I agree there seems to be a majority of only jerks out there....there are good looking guys willing to treat a woman what she's worth!

Answer 3

Yes, you may be beautiful, sweet, funny, supportive, smart and successful---but none of this stuff makes you perfect, and you also have a real bad attitude towards men. Maybe thats why the men you date are always cheating on you. You are so wrong! Not every man is an ****** as you seem to think. You are the one who keeps setting yourself up for the let-down because it seems to me that you are looking for Mr. Perfect and gues what, he doesn't exist.

You claim that only ugly men than nobody wants are willing to treat women right. Well, I won't call anyone 'ugly', but if you are going to base your relationships only on looks then keep dating the prettyboys and STOP complaining about it when they dump you. Maybe your men all leave you because you're a b*tch!

Answer 4

Wow. thats kind of harsh. The ugly ones?? Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. You probably only go for the pretty boys who know they are all that. Or think they are. Maybe if you open your eyes a little bit maybe you will see there is some good guys out there. Maybe they are not models or anything, but far from ugly. You know beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. Saying that the only ones that treat women are the ones that nobody wants. You sound like you are a little stuck up too. So you probably go for all the players who if you paid attention you would see they are players.

Answer 5

Its not about gender, ppl such as those that you describe can be both male AND female... A lot of ppl only look at whats on the surface, thinking that a beautiful person on the outside means a beautiful person on the inside rarely is that the case..

Answer 6

Stereotyping will make you go blind.... Only someone blind would condition themselves to believe this is a gender issue. Many guys who are attractive find it easy to remain faithul. While many girls are cheating on their men. PEOPLE don't deserve this treatment. Don't fool yourself into thinking this is a blight solely brought down on the female of the species. Yeah some men are dogs. I'll admit that. But just as many girls are prone to cheat. Plenty of good looking couples are getting together and remaining true. Its rough when you get cheated on... I imagine that is what happened to you. Its frustrating... But have faith that there are a lot of us studly guys that believe in the monogomous realationships as an important rule.

Answer 7

My brother, who is a total stunner, once said to me, that it seems that the world is lacking in certain values. He always had a huge amount of ladies after him, but, he always wanted one thing, someone who he can be himself with, someone with good values, who can see him for who he really is, and they can have a life together. I must admit, today, when I spoke to his fiance, I was sure that what they have is the real thing.
In life, you must be who you are, and if you are a great person, do not change just because you happen to have a bad experience, because it's not worth it.
If someone treats you badly, leave.
Know in advance what to look for, do not trust easily, be as independent as you can, and never ever negotiate your identity.
be strong, not all boys are bad behaving!

Answer 8

i agree 100% . i just got treated like crap today from a guy that i liked and now hes say" i lost interest" and it wasnt because of me it was because some ex friend made a mean myspace on me and then added him and now he thinks im like a creep with no friends. and im not im fine. they were saying im ugly an stuff and now he believes it. hes such a whimp.
and now my self esteem is now REALLYL LOw cause now i think im ugly =[

Answer 9

First off i dont know wat u talkin bout I am a good dude stayed faithful until i got cheated on, if u ask me women these days are just as bad or even worse then tha men. Believe me i have no trouble gettin woman. U are prlly mad because u ugly and ur man cheated on u

Answer 10

I'm a guy, and I have to agree myself. The truth is that even the best guys (and the best guy) I've met have had their faults. Which is to be expected, and it's also something I welcome. Yet, even still the one I consider the best of the best has cheated on me more than once...

The men out there aren't all bad. Considering myself one of the good ones, I encourage all women to keep looking. And when you find one of us, keep them.