im falling in love with my bestfriend and i just want to know if it has ever crossed his mind at all....i really like him and i want to let him know...in a good hint..what can i say?
2007-06-18 11:09:19 · 22 answers · asked by Keannekke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should you take a chance and tell your best friend that you love him? Should you not take the chance and MAYBE miss out on the best thing that could happen to you in your life?
Years ago i was involved in a relationship with my best female friend,It blossomed into a romantic relationship. It has been the best thing i have ever done in my lifetime!! We have now been married for 24 years and have raised four children together, People still say we act like newlyweds. You know what? She is and will always be my best friend. As for what type of hint you should use,Ask him out on a date. Ask him and see if he would like to be more then just friends!! Forget about hinting around!! Hints aren't always caught and you'll just wind up frustrated. Or ask him to lunch and let the conversation lean towards stepping up the relationship and see how he feels about it. I hope that has helped you and i wish you the best of luck!!
2007-06-18 11:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing better than falling in love with a good friend. You know each other so well and you liked him for the right reasons first. Be aware if you move on to a different relationship and if it doesn't work out, you will lose a good friend. You really can't go back. . .at least for quite awhile. Most of the male friends I have had over time-at least the single ones-were friends because I didn't want the relationship to go anywhere else. He is probably interested but worried you are not. I would sit him down, close, and look him in the eye and ask him if the two of you are good friends. And then I would look him deeper in the eye and ask if he had ever thought of the two of you being more than friends. If he says no, then blink and coyly say something about wanting to know if he found you attractive and get out of it that way. If he says yes, then smile and say you have too.
2007-06-18 18:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with a lot of the people that's answered your question. Just tell him. If you use hints, he might not pick it up, and you might interpret it as a sign that he doesn't like you, and the whole things ends on miscommunication and a hint-gone-bad.
Just tell him! I'm a guy who has had two or three different best friends who are female throughout the course of my life and I've thought about how things would be if I dated every single one of those female best friends. I'm dating my college best friend, and we've been together for two years. I plan on proposing within the next year, but shhhhh... don't tell her :-)
Best of luck to you!
2007-06-26 17:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by ydLonghorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a typical guy, then hell yea he has thought about you and him being in a relationship.
Is he single? How long has he been single for?
If he's with a girl, then chances are that he doesn't have the same feelings for you as you do for him.
But if he's single,
try talking to your closest girl friend and ask her how you should bring up the topic of u n him being together with him.
You'll never know unless u try....
and I suggest you try soon and fast, because some tramp might come into the pic...
best wishes,
MNK
2007-06-18 18:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same situation earlier and we came out to be together. i think if you tell him he will consider your honesty and sometimes you can fall in love with you best friend.
try givin hints like bringin up small things that may mean alot or bring up a conversation about anyones relationship and slowly get into that.
what i did was play the question game...ask him: If i were to like u more than a friend would u like me bak?
gluck
2007-06-18 18:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by sittingwaitingwishing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hint is the best. Tell him that you or even he needs to be in a serious relationship as you do not believe in a casual one. Worked on me. Might work for you.
2007-06-26 17:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by itsybtsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM!!! If he is truly your best friend and he doesn't feel the same then it shouldn't affect your relationship. Tell him before you have "FALLEN" in love with him (not just falling for him). Just sit him down and tell him. Don't play games and don't hint around...affairs of the heart are very serious. It's not like if you don't tell him it's going to go away...it will only get stronger.
I married my best friend........
2007-06-18 18:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by amycheesehead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great friends /wanna be a lover. id say its worth a try. Hints, try being more affectionate. Look at him "that" way when the timing is right. there is no mistaking "that' look. check his reaction, youll know whether to back up. body language says alot
2007-06-26 17:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i would do.. cause i have been there i would. i would say im falling for this guy we have been friends for ever and touch his hand or something to let him now it is him cause if u dont act fast u might lose him or something if he dont know u like him he might just move on with out knowing u ever liked him then what would u do
2007-06-18 18:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by A proud mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Guys think about attractiveness all of the time. There is no better way to end this friendship than to continue down the path you are going.
2007-06-18 18:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ranger D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋