NO we are only 2 marry Muslim men if we want our marriage to be excepted by Allah subhanna wa ta'ala and not looked down upon. but Allahu al3am. {Allah knows} and He knows best
2007-06-18 09:56:53
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answered by baba where art thou 4
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ONE MYTH THAT WE SHOULD ALL PUT TO REST IS THIS: Just because you were born in a Muslim family it does NOT mean that you are a Muslim. Islam is NOT a race or an ethnicity. If you do not believe in Islam, you are NOT a Muslim. So, let's get that out of the way... Secondly, where is the evidence that pre-marital sex is modern or progressive? Just because a bunch of Westerners are doing it, it doesn't mean that it's right. Western culture is NOT modernity, because there are always sub-cultures within every culture and the world has always gone through cycles of conservatism and liberalism. Finally, Muslims feel that sex without marriage is an abusive situation for a woman. In marriage, a woman is entitled to have certain rights and privileges. If you are divorced, you can claim 'mahr' in Islam or alimony in Western countries. If you are not married, your boyfriend can kick you out at any time without paying you a dime. Every person or thing has a value. In relationships, men offer financial stability, security and strength. Women bring to the table their beauty, charm, companionship, motherhood, and ability to run a household (along with a job if necessary). As you will age, you will lose some of these things. Your value in the marriage or relationship market will go down. If you are giving it all away now without any commitment, you may end up with nothing. That's the risk you take. Trust me, I am old enough to know these things. I see a lot of lonely old ladies who used to think like you, as if there was no tomorrow. Islam is there to help YOU and safeguard YOUR interests. My job is to warn you. But in the end, it's your life that you have to worry about.
2016-05-18 23:28:53
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answered by Anonymous
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If you follow your religion then the answer is no. I am not trying to be mean, but you are not practicing your religion, so why concern yourself with what it expects of you? If you feel guilty about marrying a non-Muslim man then you apparently believe in your religion more than you may realize. I think you have lots of things to consider here... what exactly is your faith, is Islam important to you, do you identify yourself as Muslim, do you believe in another religion other than Islam, is having a partner in your life who does not believe in God something you want etc...??? If you do identify with Islam at all, then you should really try to find a man who supports your beliefs, preferably a Muslim man who would encourage you if you chose to return to your roots in Islam
2007-06-18 11:08:54
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answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7
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I don't believe it is a question of CAN or CANNOT. This is a very personal decision and obviously, one that you are not taking lightly. That is good. Do you believe that the difference in your beliefs will cause a problem? Has it in the past? Are you planning on having children and have you both discussed what you will teach the children about religion? These are things that you might think about before making such a big decision. It is good that you are thinking about these thing though and am proud of you for taking it seriously.
2007-06-18 10:00:18
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answered by Michelle 2
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Do you love him more than you worry about his lack of faith? Which is more important to you?
I would strongly suggest having an answer to that question before you commit to marriage.
2007-06-18 09:56:49
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answered by Mathsorcerer 7
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Yes
Muslim women marry non-Muslim men, then get murdered by their family.
That's real family love and understanding for you!
2007-06-18 09:54:58
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answered by Anonymous
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