Can somebody advise me? I wrote two notes to my sister (not offensive, but to do with personal, family matter

Question

s). I subsequently had an 'harassment warning' placed against me. My 'sister' had previously said that she wanted no contact with me for no good reason. My brother-in-law has always resented the fact that they looked after me from the age of 14, when my mother died. I had to put up with various forms of abuse from him from the age of 14 - mental abuse. And latterly being ignored and being described as a 'neighbour' (I live next door to them), rather than as a member of the family. I have put up with his sickening behaviour for 26 years. He has now achieved what seemed to be his ultimate goal of excluding me completely and cutting me off from what was effectively my only family. My 'sister' started to treat me really badly about two years ago, and so this has seemed to be her goal too. I have suffered badly mentally and physically as a result. Four weeks after the 'harassment' warning, I injured myself quite badly, panicked and went to them for help, they pulled the curtain and

Answer 1

i think you should find a way to talk to her and let her know that she is way out of line.. tell her that blood is thicker than water, and that if she is not going to get along with you because of her husband then that she is a disgrace to your family.. what would your mother think.. if she got along with your mother really well, tell her it would be a disgrace to her! i think the fact that she treats you so poorly is absolutely disgusting.. and furthermore, what you need to tell her is that if she is going to let some guy rule her life and tell her what to do instead of making her own decisions, that she is a pathetic excuse for a human being and gives being a woman (with rights) a bad name! honestly, your better off without her. who needs someone like that.. and when something bad happens to her, i wouldnt even act like it bothers you! that is completely ridiculous.. and when you see her husband next door, laugh in his face! he is a controlling, self concious, jealous weirdo..hes probably so desperate that if he loses her he wont have anything left.. dont act upset..act happy! and even tell him. no matter what he does, or even if they are married.. he can never take the place of her real family... and no matter how much of an ignorant a** he is, that she will always know that deep down.. she took care of you when you were younger because she wanted to! nobody forced her or she would have left you to live on the streets! and beleive, this guy is going to get whats coming to him..dont your worry.. he probably is the type of person who has friends that talk about him behind his back and make complete fun of him..

all in all..your sister is a disgrace to the meaning of family..hes a disgusting human being.. if not already, i hope she never has kids.. ask her if she would dis-own them if he asked her to as well! or better yet.. when he tells her to jump, make sure she asks how high! ughhh.. tell her to make her own decisions and stop being an immature child!

Answer 2

i'm a parent of two sons. I continuously instructed myself that in the event that they have been gay, i could help them. seems they are no longer gay, yet however, they are my sons and that i admire them no rely what. Your father and mom love you and so does your loved ones. all people is purely ignorant approximately homosexuality. they don't know it and consequently their lack of understanding provides them some stupid self righteous skill to play god. This worldwide particularly is a gorgeous place. existence would be full of wonderment even with the wars, racists and homophobics. If I have been you, i could pass someplace the place the community accepts gay persons without judging them. you would be able to desire to lead the existence you like in case you place your self with compatible persons. this variety you would be able to desire to be who you're and not concern approximately what all people thinks an never be bullied approximately it returned. If I have been you, i could beg, borrow and scouse borrow to get the funds to get the hell out of there and are available across a place the place you're oftentimes taking place. I dare you to attempt that for a three hundred and sixty 5 days. If it does no longer paintings out in a three hundred and sixty 5 days's time, then bypass forward and homicide your self. yet, you will desire to provide your self a threat at happiness as a results of fact no person else is going to do it for you. do no longer you purely desire to a minimum of attempt to shop your individual existence AND be happy on the comparable time? bypass away your loved ones and supply a sparkling existence-sort a threat for one 3 hundred and sixty 5 days. bypass forward, you're able to do this. If one in each of my son's grew to become into on your place, that's what i could tell them.

Answer 3

See a counsellor. If you have suffered this kind of treatment for as long as you claim but still live next door to your sister and brother-in-law you need to work through why you have tolerated this behaviour for so long.

Answer 4

You need to speak with your doctor about getting counseling, you dont need people like this you need to find your own way and make new real friends.


Believe me my family sucks big time and ive had to make my own way, you will feel better once youve spoken to someone and moved on. Its also perfect revenge for your sister to see you happy and content!!!

keep the faith

Answer 5

What part of "leave her alone" don't you understand???