i am 19 and the guy that i am talking to is 9 years older than me. He has a stable job, degree, etc. he lives about 5 hours away from me but he wants to meet me half way. i agreed. only, i dont know whether it would work anyway between us and if he wouldnt think about ''dating'' me, then why drive half way to meet up with just a friend? so, it must mean he is interested. just how to act, of course be myself, etc.. but still.
help!
2007-06-18 09:11:36 · 8 answers · asked by xxDdrockyxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you stated it as the guy you're talking to, it sounds like this is someone you've been talking to either just over the net or the phone...someone you have never actually met...Well, why are you going half way just for a friend?...He probably thinks he is going to have sex with you...Beware...
2007-06-18 09:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where did you meet? Was it online? I would make sure that you meet in a very public place if you met him online and know virtually nothing about him. 5 hours is quite a distance and I'd say don't go for it. Can't you meet someone closer to home? How can you have a real relationship with someone that you will never see? You sound desperate and he sounds like a pervert, but I am just a caveman.
2007-06-18 16:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your instincts when it comes to meeting a blind date. Meet someplace public. Never get into his car by yourself, even if he makes you feel comfortable, you never know. Most predators act and look normal. Not saying this guy is or anything, but you never know in this day and age. Above all be safe. Get a personal can of mace to put on your keychain or something in case he attacks at least you'll have something to defend yourself. Never go to a secluded place on the first blind date. Protect yourself girl, there's crazies out there. Better safe than sorry.
2007-06-18 16:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to be yourself. When you meet him, see how things go. If they're going well, be honest, and tell him about the distance concern that you have. If it's going to be more of a friendship thing, let him know that you want to use e-mail and phones as a way of communication, again, because of the distance. He may have the same concerns about distance, too. At least he's willing to meet you 1/2 way. Be concerned if he isn't willing to travel - I have found that if someone isn't willing to come to you as much as you're willing to go to them, it's showing the relationship is more one-sided.
2007-06-18 16:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Teresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would be sure this guy genuinely likes you before you drive 5 hrs and that he's not some criminal or just trying to get into your pants. Meet him in a very public place, so if yo get a bad feeling about it, you can get out of there.
2007-06-18 16:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely should always make a guy come to you. If he thinks you are worth it, he will. Read "The Rules." Guys like to work for their girl. If they don't, then they are slobs. Meeting halfway is for after you guys are a team. In the beginning, he has to work to get you, or he won't respect you and it won't last. Don't be too hard to get by acting aloof, but be a challenge. A very sweet challenge.
2007-06-18 16:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by alizemuffin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's looking for a quikee. Yes he has stuff, but so do I. Does thst entitle him to your time and love. Maybe you just love his stuff. It gets him laid thats why he has it. If you want him be a slut. If you cant handle being a slut don't go.
2007-06-18 16:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act normal.
2007-06-18 16:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Awesome Helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋