Is it wrong to sleep with a coworker?

Question

More so is it wrong to sleep with more then one of your coworkers?
Not sure if I should.

Answer 1

Only if they are male !

Answer 2

My personal philosophy is that nothing is "wrong" between two (or more!) consenting adults.

However, having said that, look at it realistically: In the beginning, it's all fun and games. But once the fun is over, it's nothing but drama, drama, drama. And do you really want that in your life? How will you handle it if the two you slept with (or are thinking about sleeping with) start talking about you behind your back? How will that affect your professional reputation? How will you handle projects that may require you to work closely with one or both - and they either try to sabotage you or each other? What would you do if one (or both) went to HR and accused you of some kind of harrassment? The list of possible complications goes on and on....

Bottom line: Answerer #1 had it right. Do it if you must, but recognize that it is at your peril, for all kinds of reasons beyond just whether or not it is morally "wrong."

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

It's wrong. Just imagine that in a few weeks everyone will know about the 2 of you. Heaven forbid you 2 have a falling out. You will still have to see each other or quit our job. Think about it before you jump in bed with a coworker.

Answer 4

lol absolutely not a good idea to sleep with more then one. One is complicated enough, especially when you have to see them in the work place all the time. But sleeping with a couple different women in the same building is disaster waiting to happen. If you bounce around from one women to another, one thing that should be obvious if they find out about it they aren't to happy. I don't know about you, but I hear a heck of alot of gossip where I work. Word travels and so does trouble.

Answer 5

Honestly, dating one of your co-workers is probably ok, as long as you are serious about her and you don't mind people talking.

However, just having casual sex with a coworker (or more than one, like you are suggesting) is probably not a good idea. I wouldn't say it's "wrong" per se, but it could lead to a lot of annoying garbage that may not be worth it in the long run.

Answer 6

Although it's probably unadvisable, lol, there's really nothing wrong with it(technically). Just cover your tracks bigtime. It could cause some trouble if the word gets around that you're two-timing. Been in your shoes before, and trust me - one is plenty !! I'd suggest just being a little patient. As soon as one fling is over, go for the second. As some say, you can have your cake AND eat it too. Best of luck.

Answer 7

Depends on what you mean by 'sleep'. But since you are planning on going to bed with more than one of your co-workers, I'm assuming that you're talking about just having sex for the sake of it.

I wouldn't recommend it. Those types of relationships are usually brief, and after they're over you might find that you would rather not have anything to do with the other person. And things are going to be really awkward because you will have to see them and work with them every day.

Answer 8

Yes it's! once you have sleep with your coworker watch't or the little secret is going to come out and that wont lead to no good.

Answer 9

Not if you plan to quit the next day or you signed a dating release paper at your work place, but some places arent cool with the dating & if it gets out you're in trouble

Answer 10

That's where your bread and butter come from. keep it clean and no one can take your business back to the work place and have something to talk about. There are other places to meet people, you might be making it hard on yourself sleeping around ex specially in the work place.

Answer 11

DON'T!!! This will only make working with them next to impossible. They will be expecting you to treat them like gfs, not coworkers. And if they find out that you slept with more than one of them (and they will, you know that girls gossip about this sort of stuff), there will be H ell to pay...