My boyfriend says I'm very sexy, but I need to act sexy. I thought I was but I guess not. What are somethings I can do while we are out at the bar to act sexier? I've tried asking him and he says I just need to figure out how to do it? What are some ways I can show him how sexy I am with out being slutty, and attracting attention from other guys?
2007-06-18 08:01:03 · 24 answers · asked by azswteepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to be sexy without acting like a whore is to radiate confidence and be extremely charming. If you think you're gorgeous, in most cases, others will too. Smile a lot, wear lip gloss, and have your hair down in waves. Don't think that being sexy is having to show your thighs and have your breasts pouring out of your dress. It makes you look cheap and any guy that would want you to go into public like that is not a good guy for you.
2007-06-18 08:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you to act slutty and my advice is not to do it. You should always be true to who you are and if he cannot accept you for who you are, you may want to consider replacing him. Being sexy in a bar will only invite trouble. You will definitely attract attention, but from the wrong type of people. He is wanting to show you off and that is flattering, to do that in a crowd of drunks is not the place to do that. If you guys want to dress up nice and go out to a nice dinner that would be a better place to show each other off. Sit somewhere close to the front and lots of people will see you two and probably admire you. Forget the bar scene and advise him to do the same. The only attention you will get there will cause trouble that you and your boyfriend aren't prepared to deal with.
2007-06-26 07:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Missouri Mick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say without knowing your age and your waist to hip ratio (whr). If you are young and pretty show a little midriff. In any event, you need to dress appropriate for your age and looks. It is good taste for young women with a whr of 0.7 to show a lot of skin; otherwise, otherwise.
You don't act sexy. It has to be natural. However, there are things you can say such as, "God, I'm in the mood. My hormones are driving me crazy. I having fantasies of being gang bang." I guarantee that will turn your boyfriend on big-time.
2007-06-26 06:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy is just sexy when it comes natural, if your looking to be sexy you´ll be just a prefabricated doll and that´s not good, also, your boyfriend shouldn´t tell you how to act because you are who you are and he should be happy since you´re with him.
Anyways, confidence is sexy and that´s everything you need to be sensual, otherwise, you´ll look fake.
2007-06-22 16:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Betta Franka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably sexy enough & he should see that. But if you want to be more sexy, boost your ego. Wear something you feel good in, be confident wherever you are & just tell yourself that you rock the place. If you look confident & feel confident, it'll show & make you instantly sexy.
2007-06-26 05:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sexy isnt about short skirts and boobs hanging out its about being yourself there is tho, a certain time to be a little sexier. like the bedroom but if your boyfriend really loves you he wont need you to be sexy all the time. just be youself :)
2016-04-01 03:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant. that is having your cake and eating it to. If you are sexy, then your sexy. your guy needs to appreciate what he has and stop trying to make you into his image of whats sexy. B U.
2007-06-18 08:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriends thinks your sexy why does he want you to act that way he already thinks that so what the point unless he likes seeing you flaunt your stuff when your at the bar with him
2007-06-18 08:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he want you to act sexy? He should like you how you are!
2007-06-18 08:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be confident in order to be sexy. you dont have to show off your goodies or do anything not lady like to be sexy. if he says that you need to "act" sexy..then he needs to step up his game to make you FEEL sexy.
2007-06-18 08:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋