me and my step sister aren't close?how do I get closer to her?

Question

When she comes to my house she gives me a hug and then goes straight to my sister's room! What should I do?

She is mean to me when she comes over.She talks to my sister allot and she takes my sister places with her and I stay home all day.She never wants to spend time with me

Answer 1

Tell your sister how you feel. If she knows you feel left out then she will suggest to your step sister that they should bring you.

Answer 2

Ask yourself some questions ; does this person deserve your attention? ,is she worth all the time and energy you're putting into her?, does she have anything in common with you?
My sister did the same thing with me . I was so insecure and desperatly wanted her approval. now, I learned, that she's been jealous AND protective of me since childhood. I did everything to get her to like me then we had a big fight and got it all out. now I'm not as worried about what she thinks but we still don't talk, but it's not for lack of effort on my part.
I say ;find a friend like you and let it go.

Answer 3

How old are you and how old is she? If your sister and she are about the same age, they would have more in common. Some people are just like that. They are rude and should be avoided. Perhaps she isn't worth the effort. Get some friend of yours to come and visit with you. Do your own thing and do not be so "clingy". Not everyone you meet will be your BFF. Good luck.

Answer 4

Well that really depends. How old are you? What about your sister? And your step-sister? Cos if they are closer in age to each other than you its understandable they'd spend more time together. Can't you do something with all 3 of you?

Answer 5

maby you should try talking to her more and if she dont listen ask your mom for advice. i have a step-sister and at first we didnt get along at all by i tried talking to her and being nice to her and now i feel like we are regular sisters because we can get along.i asked my mom for advice and her advice turn out to be great advice.because now we get along like we have known each other for along long time. so next time when she comes over try to talk to har and ask if you can go with her and your sisters to some places. and if she says no then try another time and maby she want say no. but always remember if you belive that something will happen or get better then it will.

*(kristen)*

Answer 6

Step sibling is a hard relationship. I can only tell you that my step sister and I didn't get along that much while growing up, we are now in our 30 and get along great. We are both mothers and share our own experiences with each other. It will get better.

Answer 7

Make her aware of how you feel and encourage your sister to include you in their bonding. Find out what her interest are. Until you both feel comfortable being alone around each other, maybe hang out as a group.

Answer 8

When she is giving you a hug, hold on a little longer, then look her straight in the eye and say. Can we be friends, too? You have nothing to lose at this point.

Answer 9

that's messed up maybe you should ask her if she wants to get luch or something just the two of you and then yous can talk and catch up hopefully, if not then maybe you should get some friends and hang out with them more and dont let her bother you at Let your real sister includes you in things right???hope so..well hope yous to can get closer ..maybe shes just jealous of you!

Answer 10

Let your sister know that you're being left out, and that it hurts your feelings. Hopefully then she'll realize what she's doing.