If you are in a relationship and still talking to ur x and occasionally seeing your x a sin? Im not married and Im not having sex with him...i just like talking to him as a friend but is it cheating???
2007-06-18 06:31:44 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
talking to any man/boy wether they are your x or not is not a sin. however if your current boyfriend feels uncomfortable (and you must worry about it if your keeping it from him) then out of respect for your current boyfriend you should either talk to him with him present or not talk to him at all.
you could always try and exsplain to your current boyfriend that he is just a friend but sometimes that doesn't work espiecaly if the x is the one who broke up with you.
having sex with anyone other then the one you are in a relationship with is wrong. having a boyfriend or a girlrfriend is a commetmite wether your planning to get married or not. if you don't think you can stay faithful then the best thing to do is break up because you arn't for each other. move on and let them move on. how would you feel if you were the one getting cheated on?
good luck on this one.
2007-06-18 06:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by mystic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are currently in a relationship, and only talking to your X, its not a sin and is not cheating.
But, if you are having a phyiscal relationship with anyone else, (including kissing or holding hands), then you are throwing caution to the wind and in my opinion it is wrong. You are sinning, because you are showing the desire to have a physical relationship, even if you are not having sex.
Here is the rule of thumb to follow. If you are doing ANYTHING your boy friend would become angry over, (holding hands, talking sweet, kissing, touching, sex, or even discussing getting back together), then it is likely you are sinning and cheating and should definitely refrain from doing any of these acts.
One guy at a time my dear.
Good luck to you
2007-06-18 06:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's two questions here:
1) Is it cheating to talk to your ex?
2) Is it wrong to cheat on your boyfriend?
Talking to an ex is not cheating; your relationship with your previous boyfriend is your business, not your current boyfriend's, and the current boyfriend has no right to demand who you can and can't see. Bear in mind he's free to break up with you if he doesn't like it (or for any reason, for that matter).
As your relationship becomes more towards marriage, you should strive to make your other relationships (ex-boyfriend, parents, his parents, your friends, etc) harmonious to your pending marriage. As an example, I get along very well with my wife's college boyfriend. I stood up in his wedding, he stood up in ours. It is unusual for many relationships, but theirs concluded on a friendly note, with no romantic attachments. I felt no threat, and welcomed him and his wife into our home as they have done for us.
Now, is cheating on a boyfriend a sin? It is dishonest, which is sinful, and depending on "how" you cheat (ie, do you feel strong attraction to the other guy, or is there some physical interaction) there may be sin in the cheating action itself. Remember to keep your body as a temple to the Lord, and perhaps rather than contend with a divided heart, ask yourself whether you would rather be with someone else, and act decisively one way or the other.
2007-06-18 06:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Veritatum17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have emotional feelings for him yes. Just because there is no physical contact does not mean that you cant be cheating. As long as you don't love him as anything more that a friend, it's ok but be very very careful, feelings build up and you could want your ex back. good luck!
2007-06-18 07:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your current boyfriend isn't okay with it, then you two need to come to an agreement. Going behind some ones back is a violation of trust. It has nothing to do with sin.
2007-06-18 06:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by ~Heathen Princess~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just talking then no, it is not cheating. But, watch out! There is such a thing as having an emotional affair and that can lead to trouble!
2007-06-18 06:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are only talking to him but not "doing anything" like kissing or even flirting etc then its not technically cheating but be careful it hurts a lot when people cheat on you :-( dont lose your boyfriends love and trust like that, remember why your ex IS your ex... good luck
2007-06-18 06:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having any sex outside of marriage is a sin... doesn' matter if it's with your bf or x bf... and God could care less about bfs or gfs he only cares about married couples
2007-06-18 06:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not cheating who told you that lol. only when you get married in a church,and take the oath,only then when you cheat is it a sin. dont worry
2007-06-18 06:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by loyal 2 tha bone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to your current partner and see what their opinion is. We aren't in a relationship with you. Our opinions really don't matter.
2007-06-18 06:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Je veux changer le monde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋