I like this guy, and sometimes I think he likes me, but he gets all shy around me and never really talks to me...he texts me loads though and tells me i'm fit and that he'd be upset if I liked someone else...
I was just wondering, from a guy's point of view, what I should do...? I mean, honestly, what do guys like? (sorry, I'm completely clueless!).
Should I ask him out...? Wait for him to perhaps ask me out...? Tell him how I actually feel...?
I'm 15, if that's any help...?
2007-06-18 06:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if he wants to go to a movie or somthing, its obvious he likes you, but is afraid of rejection. you'll have to take the first step.
2007-06-18 06:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi. I know I'm a lot older than you but I still remember when I was your age I was so unsure of myself in many respects and especially when it came to women. It is really scary when you like a girl and you haven't had much experience relating to them. you don't want to screw it up so you keep putting off making the first move. The fact that he is texting you would seem to suggest that he is more than a liitle interested in you and he feels safe communicating to you from behind the anonimity of the phone and I guess he just needs a little encouragement to talk to you face to face. I bet If you could pluck up the courage to tell him how you feel he would tell you he feels the same way because once you tell him you like him, he will have no fear of rejection. If I were you I would just be 100% honest with him and ask him if he would like to go and have a coffee with you because you have something you would like to discuss with him. when you get there just let him know how you feel about him.if he feels the same way then you can lean over to him and say thank you for talking to me about it and give him a kiss in appreciation and he will be over the moon and head over heels about you. at least you won't die wondering. the trick is to go somewhere where neither of you have anybody you know around so you can feel comfortable talking between just the two of you. hope that helped.
2007-06-18 13:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's very shy, it will probably be better that you do the talking. Just go straight up to him and begin talking. Do things subtly at first. Ask if he would like to go and see a film or something (leave the relationship thing until a bit later when you know him better). He will probably be very flattered that you are making the effort to talk to him. Good luck.
2007-06-18 13:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you might have to take the first step. some guys can be a little nervous and insecure about it. it will wear off in time but for now i'd try asking him to come over, or go out to eat. a movie would be good because you dont have to talk much, just enjoy the other ones company. if your into him, youd have to drop big unavoidable hints because we dont pick them up much. really.
you sound like a sweet girl, just dont force yourself down his throat and itll all go fine. go ahead, tell him how ya feel. he wont say no.
2007-06-18 13:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time asking him out. I know girls and if a girl asks a guy out just because a guy dosent have the nerve to it will never work. He will probably end up being a nice, boring guy that will agree with you all the time and say things to make you feel good, but young relationships need excitment. I'm 18 and I remember when I was your age seeing my boys strung off their girls and both of them being completely miserable. Find a exciting, confident guy that will treat you decent and has enough balls to ask you out.
2007-06-18 13:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Big J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how old he is, but I would say don't rush it. Maybe he is shy, maybe he doesn't know what he is doing either. Regardless, you are both young, so just keep things slow and life will work out fine.
2007-06-18 13:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_Blue_Eyes_27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im dees fiance- i think just go for it, ask him straight out right cause if he dont like you in that way then hes playing a silly game and leading you on and you can start looking else where.
2007-06-18 13:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol 15.
Be a nerd today and forget about dating and be a millionaire tomorrow.
2007-06-18 14:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
Beware, he might be a control freak
2007-06-18 13:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋