2007-06-18 06:11:04 · 20 answers · asked by aaliyah p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You try to break up withhim first but if you dont want to you could try to make things work and be a better GirlFriend
2007-06-18 06:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by BabyDaphy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you can handle it with maturity and class, it seems like you were told or heard some kind of rumor of this or maybe the way things are going you suspect it, I would advise you to talk to him at a moment and time where you guys won't be distracted or interrupted, ask him his reasoning for this, and keep your self together at all costs, tell him how you feel about him, but also respect his decision( this will actually throw him off) He will see you dealing with it well , which could be a good thing.. If after wards you need to come home and break down, then so be it!! But never in front of him! And never beg! Put your head up high and be mature , Maybe the time apart will be good for the both of you , Listen if you guys are truly in love nothing will keep you apart, and if your in love and he is not , i hate to say this but it would never work your love isn't enough he needs to feels the same. I wish you the best!
And don't worry this is life you will get over this & be stronger and wiser.
2007-06-18 06:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Magic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him first just because you think he's supposed to break up with you. That's completely immature. Talk to him and see what the deal is and be on your way.
2007-06-18 06:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why he is "supposed" to break up with you notwithstanding, I would say break up with him first, and like the other person said, show no weakness. Do it as if you were throwing out the trash or something. He might end up being so shocked that you beat him to it, that he'll suddenly realize it wasn't such a good idea. After that, take him back if you want.
2007-06-18 06:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First i love your name, second how do you know he wants to break up and if you do no for sure he wants to break up with you and i mean you really know for sure then go to him and let him know you know he wants to break up and tell him this, "I've been thinking it over and i decided also i want to break up with you too see you dont deserve me and I'm way to precious to be with you" it'll make him think if not regret it and dont take him back if he wants to stay together find someone who really likes you and who knows he might be right under your nose.
2007-06-18 06:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sam D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean by, "supposed to break up with you"? If you heard a rumor, don't believe it until he's told you himself.
2007-06-18 06:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Quaestor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could juss break up wit him first, but if u rly like him then mabye tell him u kno and u want to kno y and see if u guys can work the relationship out, and if he decides to juss break up, try to c if u can still maintain a friendship wit him
2007-06-18 06:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
break up with him first
2007-06-19 07:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him first! The first one win!
2007-06-18 06:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by dories 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can let him, or you can break up with him first.
2007-06-18 06:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋