i found out something about my bf, father of my child and i left him. he is 36. we managed to sort things out though and are now back together. he has head injuries which means he lacks in logic so his mum and dad have taken him to florida for 3 weeks to sort his head out so we can sort our relationship when he gets back. me and our daughter have been left here back in england. my boyfriend has now been gone nearly 2 weeks and has rang me twice. does this seem fair to you or do you think he is being rewarded for his mistakes??
2007-06-18 05:59:11 · 3 answers · asked by joannejones16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he really hurt me and although he has head injuries he is totally not stupid and cant blame every mistake he makes on it! before he went he promised he was oing to ring me eveyday yet hes only rang me once, then rang me a second time and we got cut off and he didnt bother ringing me back. hes been gone nearly 2 weeks. he is the one who wanted me back and i told him he would have to make an effort to gain my trust in him again, but he has broken his promises already
2007-06-18 06:13:09 · update #1
been together nearly 2 years
2007-06-18 06:15:02 · update #2
by going away so far for 3 weeks he has missed his first fathers day, hes missed our daughter crawl for the first time and he has missed her learn to feed herself. it just seems so sad.
2007-06-18 06:17:08 · update #3
As long as you let this man use you, that's what he is going to do. He's old enough to be a better person, head injuries or not. Examine why you think you deserve so little in this relationship and pack your bags and move on. Consider what you are teaching your daughter about relationships with men, that they can walk all over you and you just take it. That's no way to raise a daughter to have self worth.
2007-06-18 06:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this is exactly what he needs, and you!
a little time off, time to think
doesn't matter where he does it, as long as he thinks
I don't think he has been rewarded although I can see your point of view. but try to see it as a time out, time to put 2 and 2 together
2007-06-18 06:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweetera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who has brain damage deserves a little leeway when it comes to some things. If he was able to get you to give him a second chance, then give him a second chance.
2007-06-18 06:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by bardstale 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋