this guy i work with, i am aquintances with seems to really like to bug me, sometimes he's mean about it, most of the time he makes sexual jokes about my body, like when he said he was going to be playing with my boobs, anyways , he asks me if i hate him and he asks me friend the same question, he wantd to grind on me and give me a lap dance when we went to this club, i dont understand why he does it to me only ,there are plenty of other girls he could have done this to, i think he thinks i like him
i try to get away from him and he constantly is around me,
he was engaged and abt 2 months ago it ended, i heard he still has feelings for his ex, so what is he getting out of bugging me?
2007-06-18 05:37:16 · 18 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was drunk when we went to the club when he was trying to grind on me and give me a lap dance
2007-06-18 05:44:12 · update #1
Talk to your boss and tell him/her what he is doing.
2007-06-18 05:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when a guy bugs you he really likes you but doesn't have a good way of saying he does. Maybe he is just trying to get over his previous relationship and you're the one in his sight. When he asks if you hate him, he's wondering if he's taking it too far and keep a limit on bugging you.
If you don't feel flattered about it, you should tell him how you feel. If he asks again if you hate him, you should say, No, but I might if you keep doing those things. maybe, he will admit why he's doing it.
2007-06-18 05:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Nina is here! :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also had a guy bug me like this at my job about 2 years ago. He was about 8 years older, unmarried, with 7 children and a crazy baby mother. It got to the point where other people noticed it as well and he was terminated. U should definitely talk to ur supervisor because it helped me alot!
2007-06-18 05:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Licia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to F*** You thats it. Hes a loser leave him alone and ignore him. If this where me and it happened at work let him know this is sexual harrassment , and take it to the boss if necessary. If sure youre good looking so guys wont have a problem finding you, good guys that is.
2007-06-18 05:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by Gearsofwarannihilator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like he likes you and quiet possibly thinks you like him, i'd advice taking to him and making sure that he is aware that youre not interested. On a slightly more serious tone, if he continues to behave like this, then it might be time to think about involving your supervisor as he may be intentionally sexually harassing you. As i say though, i would consider talking to him first.
I hope this helps
Jinx
2007-06-18 05:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this *bugging* u is his way of flirting with you? why dont u ask him...cant hurt to give that a try...but make sure ur serious and hes in a mood to be serious otherwise it probably wont work out the way you hope...and then you wont kno what his problem is. good luck! =]
2007-06-18 05:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by MeLiSsA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to file sexual harassment charges. That'll end all that noise in 2 seconds flat.
2007-06-18 05:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but doesn't know how to deal with it. I think you should talk to him about it instead of trying to avoid it. He might be a cool guy, just a bit confused.
2007-06-18 05:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he basically bugs you with the aid of fact he gets a damaging reaction from you. If the different females performed alongside with him, it would not be as exciting,yet you react negatively to it and he gets exhilaration out of it. (that's the substantial to all bullies. they only desire a reaction.) What you're able to do approximately this guy is whinge on your boss or supervisor with the aid of fact what he's doing would properly be labeled as sexual harassment.
2016-11-25 21:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is infatuated with you and has a childish way of showing it that is boarder line harrasment and a word to your boss might be in order and avoid any social contact
2007-06-18 05:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by David T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you... he is an A**, but he likes you.
Tell him straight up that it bugs you and it must stop. If that does not stop it go to H.R., guaranteed they will handle it.
2007-06-18 05:50:28 · answer #11 · answered by Holmes C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋