a girl sleeping with a guy on the first night??

Question

is therre a possible relationship??

Answer 1

It depends on the guy really. If he is a complete asshole that only wanted that in the first place, then I doubt it. But if he seems like a genuine guy, that would not do that (there are some out there, few but some) then he will probably give you a call a few days later. If this is the situation, I wouldnt give into him again. Hold off sex for a while just to let him know that is not what you are all about. Good luck.

Answer 2

It's possible but don't be disappointed if it doesn't happen. If both are you are real adults minus all the games that most people play with other then a relationship is possible. But more than likely if you guys couldn't wait to get to know each other then probably not. Depends on what the people sleeping together think about it.

Answer 3

Anything is possible. But, in this case, you're sending the wrong message. That's called a one night stand, and guys will think you are easy and that you don't want a relationship. If you want a relationship, get to know the person before jumping into bed with them.

Answer 4

On average, no.

However, I slept with my now husband on the first night, and we have been together for 11 years, and are still going strong. I can't say I would recommend it to everyone as an ideal way of starting a romance. Luckily for us, it didn't change a thing. We just couldn't get enough of each other - that night, or any night after that!

You just never know.

Answer 5

I've had sex on the first date, continued having a strictly sexual relationship, and after a few months, the guy was interested in taking the relationship to another level. So, yes it is possible.

Answer 6

Yes BUT the chances increase if she doesn't have sex with him on the first night...and the chances of her having sex and getting dumped right away also decrease.

I've known a number of couples that started as first-date sex, but I've known more people who had first-date sex and never saw the other person again. It's lousy but true. Anyone who would have sex with someone on a first date, then judge them as "loose" is not looking in the mirror...they are just as 'guilty' of loose behavior but that's the old stupid double standard we have to deal with. Adults should be able to have sex when they desire and not have to worry about the person phuquing them judging them negatively.

Having sex right away isn't always a bad move, but it's never a bad move to wait a bit....unless you already know you don't want anything more with that person than a 'roll in the hay' so to speak.

Answer 7

A guy probably will not want a relationship with a girl who sleeps with him on the first night...people want to respect the person they are in a relationship with, & a guy will not respect you if you do that.

Answer 8

YES! Do I recommend it though?? No! My hubby and I slept together on the first night 10 years ago and have been happily married for over 9 years ;)

Answer 9

SO sad that everyone said no . What about love at first sight , what about just enjoying life & not living by sets of crazy rules !!!! if ya sleep with him on the first night it might be one of the magic moments in your life

Answer 10

no i doubt it,it sounds like the guys just taking advantage of her and does not actualy have real feelings for this girl, both that girl and that guy prolly have issues considering they would be willing to do this when they first met.

they should talk it out and try to take it slow, that is, if they want to salvage a relationship from the wreck