I don't personally have a myspace but my boyfriend does. I look at it sometimes(just to check) I trust him. But i feel guilty. Is it too nosy?
2007-06-18 04:38:31 · 9 answers · asked by lea b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend does that to me too - but always tells me because there's something on there he doesn't like that one of my friends said (not even about him). I put it on private so he can't complain anymore - he abused the priveldge.
It IS nosy. And I don't care what you say - if you 100% trusted your boyfriend you would not feel the need to look "just to check". If you truly trusted him, you wouldn't feel the need to double check. If I were you, I would evaluate why you do this. And stop. It is nosy, you need to trust him ok.
2007-06-18 04:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is nosy. People need their privacy. As long as you can trust him. Then you don't need to go checking up on him, he'll feel that your closing in on him and not giving him any freedom.
I did that once. Found stuff i really DID NOT like.
Trust me. I wont be doing that again.
2007-06-18 04:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Poise ! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. If you trust him completely, you wouldn't be doing this. Once you feel insecure, no matter how little it is, you would start checking his accounts or mails.
Have you ever heard the word of "privacy'?
Try trusting your boyfriend completely, it will make you feel much better and your relationship will be much stronger.
2007-06-18 04:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by cheesecake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on why you're checking up on him. if you're just bored or something, it's no big deal, but if you are expecting to find something, you really aren't trusting him. either you have a feeling something is wrong or you're totally paranoid. but if you mean actually going into his myspace using his password and stuff, then that is definitley crossing the line.
2007-06-18 04:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is it you are looking for? Must be something. I don't think I buy that you trust him completely - otherwise, you either would look at it while he is there or you wouldn't look at all. Just remember - you might just get what you are looking for one of these days.... be prepared.
2007-06-18 04:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more curiosty I would say some ppl would perceive it as nosy . I dont however just your curiosity getting the best of you . good luck .
2007-06-18 04:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES. i did that once and it messed up the relationship. just don't do it, it's asking to find something that you will not like, and it's just not fair. Don't test someone like that, you are setting them up.
2007-06-18 04:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you get a my space account and add each other? that way its not snooping. you're leaving a loving girlfriend comment.
2007-06-18 04:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~ chiclets gum ~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its normal, i do it
2007-06-18 04:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by mimi66 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋