Hello , I am a 33 yr old single women . about 3 weeks ago i met a young man and we have seen each other every day since we met. We at first were both saying this is a booty call , which i was all for. but now he is confusing the hell out of me. just a boty call but every day after work he is there. and amazingly we are not having sex every time we see each other.
we instanlty had a connection from the first time we met. bottom line the more time i spend with him the more my feelings are getting stronger, and i never really believed in love at first sight but now im thinking maybe. what do you think?
2007-06-18 04:27:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How young is young?
2007-06-18 04:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Aussie 1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him that it is evident that the two of you are spending time together outside of what a typical "booty call" is. Tell him that you are developing feelings for him and that you don't want to become any more emotionally involved than you already are if the relationship is nothing but sex for him. You are a mature adult and deserve to know where he stands because at this point you shouldn't be playing high school games with the men in your life. If he is around for sex only, you will find out, but you may be surprised to learn that he is starting to care for you, too! Good luck!
2007-06-18 04:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by ncmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, I think people who claim that they are "just in it for the sex" are really just afraid to put themselves "out there." If it doesn't work, they don't feel like a failure and if it does take off a bit---great. It's apparent that you are interested in him and now are hoping that he feels the same. If you are interested in making it more, you need to make sure that you and him are on the same page. Ask him. It's very simple.
If this doesn't work, don't set up the next guy for defeat from the begining. Don't volunteer to be a booty call. You are better than that and deserve more. Good luck, dear.
2007-06-18 04:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be direct & ask him specifically where your relationship is going. Let him know your not pressuring him for a relationship, you just want to know where you both stand on the subject. Be honest & tell him how you feel. Tell him you need some clarification on the situation so that neither one of you gets in over your head & unintentionally hurt each other.
2007-06-18 04:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by redhot_redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him - say you are happy to have a booty call - but ultimately would he want to become more involved with you? if yes then try to start the dating before the sex - not sex as the date! if no then get rid of him - you'll only end up hurt when you love him and he doesnt want that.
2007-06-18 04:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by tspoonteddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because you both dedcided it was going to be casual that that was why ye were both easy about the whole situation for it to develop into something bigger and better.
Leave well alone and carry on for a bit further and make sure you know what is going on before saying anything to him about it!
2007-06-18 04:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by XxEmXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 21:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you two are a match. But don't jump to conclusions too fast. Keep in mind that "the fire that burns too brightly consumes itself." Let the relationship mature and develop. Good luck.
2007-06-18 04:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married by booty call 6 months later and have been married for 12 years.
2007-06-18 04:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by SASSY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a possibility but ask him what he thinks about what is happening between the two of u, before u get hurt, if he feels the same way then go for it! if not it better to knw sooner rather than later!
2007-06-18 04:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a booty call develops into more that just that...but I would sill keep my gaurd up, and then ask him what he wants if this persists
2007-06-18 04:31:23 · answer #11 · answered by mlp7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋