I had that problem, and they're BOTH my maids of honors. What I did was have them divide up the responsibilities so they wouldn't have to spend as much time together.
2007-06-18 04:21:56
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answered by Anonymous
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I had 2 maids of honor at my wedding. I am the oldest child in the family and I have 2 younger sisters. They are my best friends and there was no way I could pick one and not the other. We talked about it and they said they wouldn't be mad if I just picked one and had the other as a bridesmaid but I couldn't do it for my own emotional sanity.
If these two women are your best friends - they will understand if you have 2 or if you only choose one. If they don't, then maybe they weren't your best friends to begin with. They should put aside their differences and remember that this is your wedding day and they should do it to make YOU happy!
Good Luck!
2007-06-18 04:28:44
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answered by Courtney H 2
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Who cares if they don't like each other? This is your day and they should put aside their personal feelings for you if they are true friends. I think you have two options. You can have both of them serve as your honor attendants. If one is married and one is single then have a maid of honor and a matron of honor. If there is too much conflict between the two, then have no honor attendant. Your fiance's best man can take both rings and you can place bridesmaids by height. I had this same conflict when I got married, but both of the girls were married. One was open to the idea of sharing the role and the other was angry. In the end, I had bridesmaids only and allowed my future father-in-law to carry the rings for both of us. It worked out fine and avoided a lot of headaches for me.
2007-06-18 04:38:26
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answered by ncmom 3
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I went to a wedding on Saturday, and the bride had a maid of honor (her sister) and two Angel maidens. It was pretty cool.
The Angel Maidens (I'm just giving them a name, I don't really know what they're called) dressed in sparkly white dresses. They walked down the aisle after the wedding party (flower girl, ringbearer, bridesmaids, roomsmen, you know) came. There was a big rolll of lacy, thin paper, ath the end of the aisle. at each end of the roll, there was a long string. One Angel maid held the string on one side, the other holding the other string. Together, they walked towards the church doors, pulling the carpet paper aisle-cover thing. Then they stepped onto the side of the aisle. The doors opened, and the bride came out, walking on the white aisle cover. That part was really beautiful! Still, your friends would have to work toggether. But if you are old enough to get married, they are old enough to grow up (sorry, but I want to tell the straight-out truth) and work together. They should be able to pull themselves together, especcially for a wonderful friend's wedding.
2007-06-18 04:26:53
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answered by ♥Reese is Blessed♥ 2
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Have 2 MOHs. I had a Maid of Honor and a Matron of Honor. My stepdaughter ("to-be" at the time) was my Maid of Honor and my sis-in-law was my Matron of Honor (Matron b/c she is married to my brother). I saw someone on here the other day that was planning on 2 maids of honor. :) It's your wedding, do what works for you. If they don't get along, just assign them different duties so they don't have to hang out together very much. After you ask each of them to be in the wedding and they accept, just let them know that there will be 2 maids of honor and if they love you, they will put aside their differences to make your wedding day special. :)
Good luck! :)
2007-06-18 04:24:08
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answered by searching_please 6
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I have two best friends as well, and not only do they like each other, but they're dating. (I was best friends with them before that--and it's a really long story, but they met through me) Anyway, she's going to be my maid of honor, and he'll be my man of honor. My boy (we're not engaged--yet) will probably have his best guy friend and his best girl friend up there too. I see no problem with having two maids of honor! And kudos to the person who said to divide up responsibilities. Then they'll just see each other on your wedding day.
2007-06-18 04:25:52
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answered by Freke 4
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The only way I can think to do it is to either have two maids of honor, or choose someone else entirely. I would probably go the second route (maybe a sibling or someone), because if you made them both maids of honor then they'd have to work together a lot and it would probably just be more stressful.
2007-06-18 04:23:44
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answered by Nisha 3
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Don't have either of them as maid of honor, that way, nobody feels left out and no one gets mad at the other. If you have a sister, she should be your maid of honor. Good luck and congrats!!
2007-06-18 04:27:29
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answered by devon 5
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Sorry you're in that position. I hope they can put their differences aside for your sake. You could have them both be MOH's, which is probably a bad idea. You could make them both bridesmaids and tell them it's because you couldn't choose one over the other as MOH. Whatever you do, you've got to let them know they need to bury the hatchet between them so that the planning and the wedding can go smoothly for you. If they both care about you, they'll comply. I wish you the best of luck with this.
Congratulations.
2007-06-18 04:34:11
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answered by Happy Wife 4
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My sister had 2 maids of honor. I know they dont like each other, but it might be easier for you to pick them both and just have them deal with standing next to each other for the ceremony. They will have to do all the planning together for the shower, bachelorette party, etc. anyways, If they are your true best friends, they will but their own feelings aside for your big day. Good luck.
2007-06-18 04:23:26
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answered by Sassy Pants 3
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