2007-06-18 04:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by tubbykat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES YES YES.. YES.... UNTIL HE IS CLAN FOR AT LEAST A YEAR.... LEAVE HIM..... .
2007-06-18 04:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Most people were quick to respond with a "yes", however, it seemed evident that only one, maybe two people had ever been in a similar experience. It is a very difficult situation and there needs to be a lot more considerations then were provided. Ages? Addiction? Attempts for help (if any)? ...so much more information is needed. But really, no one can answer this but you. If you are unsure, you will keep faltering. (this is my personal experience). Oh and I was really bothered by the comment about alcohol and tobacco versus other substances. First of all, all of these things are "drugs". Secondly, the only reason that alcohol kills more people then cocaine is b/c it is more readily used. (societal standards). So, if you are going to question societal standards such as legalitiy you should really consider all of the implications.
2007-06-20 23:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I had to leave my ex. I still loved him, but felt I deserved a better life, and so did my children. I stayed for a long time though. After a while I felt my life was in danger. You can love someone a lifetime and not live with them. Relationships are complicated, and every situation is different, so if this is you and you are trying to see if someone might leave you- Yes, most will. Wondering if you should leave someone who is a drug addict? Do you want to and are staying out of guilt or fear? At least take a break or mini vacation away from the person and see if you are happier- you must love yourself after all. Decisions made from a negative emotion can turn out to hurt you in the end. Listen to your inner voice- be honest.
2007-06-18 11:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by pajamaflowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because the addiction to the drug will be stronger than the addiction to you --- and that's not a balanced relationship.
2007-06-18 11:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew someone in this situation. She gave her husband (the drug addict) tons of second chances, but he just continued to drain her bank account and get arrested. If you really love this person, get him/her help. You can't continue a relationship with a drug addict, because they may hurt you.
2007-06-18 11:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by AlyssaH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I recently broke up mainly because he "self-medicates" himself with a vodka bottle when he gets depressed or stressed out. We have talked very openly and emotionally to each other about it but in the end he continues to do it. He can't change unless he is ready to for himself. I miss him so badly and I am so worried about him. It was the most difficult decision of my life, to leave him rather than to stand by him. He needs to go for help for himself, not because of me. My only wish in life is for him to come back to me one day after he does. I don't care if it is next week or next year. You have to let the addict work through their own problems no matter how hard it is. They will hurt you too much in the process if you stay honey. I wish you good luck in your choices.
2007-06-18 11:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he refused to admit he had a problem and refused to get help, then yes I absolutely would leave him. With self-destructive behavior like that, the only way he'll stop is when he hits his own rock bottom. There's nothing you can do. So it's best that you leave now before he destroys not only himself, but you as well.
2007-06-18 11:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what kind of drug, my fiance does weed which i dont think is to bad compared to all the other drugs. I love him to death and couldnt imagine being without him and he does everything for me so no I would not leave him.
2007-06-18 11:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by ஐ♥Sabine♥ஐ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I feel that if you love him you should try to help him. I know it can be tough but if he loves you he will try to stop. However if he keeps going its his choice but I wouldnt risk putting yourself in danger with that. Try to help him stay clean and if he refuses then I would say leave for the sake of yourself. You shouldnt risk yourself for someone whose hurting you.
2007-06-18 11:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by jjjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say drug addict like it's the devil.
Let me ask you this:
How many people have died from direct ecstasy, acid, cocaine or pot use?
Now how many have died due to alcohol or cigarrette use?
Exactly. Don't condemn "drugs" because everyone else does. Legal drugs like alcohol and tobacco kill more than illegal substances EVER have.
2007-06-18 11:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by twice. 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes.
2007-06-18 11:23:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋